I’ve lost 60 lbs since several months ago. I’m now a size 18 in pants and I’m 5’10. He does randomly stare at me and will tell me how “so pretty” I am and such…however, I know for a fact he does not like big girls. I met him on Bumble and he deactivated his account after a week of seeing me and then deleted it all together after a month and we are now into 3.5 months of seeing one another and have actually now said we love one another. He’s a fit guy and I just recently got into Crossfit and working out a lot more and he says he’s attracted to the “effort”, but can that actually really be enough for a guy even when a girl doesn’t have the ideal body he truly wants. I know I’m insecure and I’m working on a lot of self love (even before I met him). I know he could date have dated any fit woman he wanted. Maybe I’m just in my head because I want to feel great in my body and be this perfect dream girl to him.
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Guy, why would he date me if I’m a plus size girl, but I know he doesn’t like big girls?
