Can love be bought?

[SpaceGalaxy]

For example: You (a normal, hardworking guy with an average salary) are madly in love with someone who also claims to be madly in love with you, and she gets an offer from a multi-Millionaire guy about your age and similar in looks (not better/not worse).. an offer from him that indicates he wants to date her and be exclusive with her and she has to be exclusive with him) ... In your opinion (be realistic) what do you think the chances of her going with the new guy leaving you are?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's a tough situation. Love is complicated and money does factor in unfortunately. Here are my thoughts realistically:

- If she really loves you for you and your connection is really strong, she may not go for his money offer. Love can overcome that stuff.

- But if your relationship is still new, money could be tempting. She may get swept up by his lifestyle even if her feelings for you are true. Women also like security.

- A lot depends on her character. If she's very ambitious or materialistic, the money guy may have the edge sadly. But if she values connection over possessions, you've got a good shot.

- My advice would be tell her honestly how you feel and that you want to build a life together long term. Remind her of all the little things that make your bond special.

- Also don't come on too needy - play it cool like you believe in your relationship. Desperation is unattractive to women.

- Who knows, if she does cave you may be better off. But if she picks you for you and not the money, you've got a keeper. Stay positive man!

So in summary - love can overcome money, but doesn't always. Have faith and keep communicating your heart. The rest is out of your hands bro.

[Billlewis]

I think companionship can definitely be bought, but not actual love.

[SpaceGalaxy]

interesting way of putting it. well-said... but can it later develop to love, you think? and... what are the chances of her staying with the hardworking guy and saying no the multi-millionare guy's offer?

[Billlewis]

I'm not sure I agree with that. I've served numerous women and couples as a pay pig, and although I genuinely loved them, I don't think any of them ever loved me; they just enjoyed using me for their own selfish pleasure, and that's perfectly fine with me.

[IslaTheWitch]

no, it can't... for love time and connection are needed

[mandyfire98]

It's not really love if it can be bought

[SpaceGalaxy]

Very well-said.

[NathanDavis]

absolute zero...

[Apple1996]

It's not real love if it has to be bought

[laly520]

not possible