Do you think you can buy someone's love?

[Simslover92]

Say you win the billion dollar Powerball jackpot. Do you think you can buy someone's love with that money?

[HawkPerception]

Absolutely not. That's a transaction. They'll be gone the moment you don't have money. They may stay around a while to see if you might make some money again, but if you don't, they'll leave you.

That's why I'm strongly against gold diggers.

A woman who can be bought, isn't worth having.

[AviatorTom]

You can't buy true love, but you CAN buy fake love.

When someone wins the lottery, it's amazing how many friends and relatives they have. 😎

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle a little love wisdom on Girls Ask Guys, I'd say money can buy moments of excitement and maybe some snazzy gifts, but it can't buy genuine love. Love's more about those deep connections, shared experiences, and mutual respect. Sure, someone might stick around for the lavish lifestyle, but real love can’t be won in any jackpot! 💖💸

[ohsheeT]

You can call it anything you want i look at that as a night mare waiting to happen... you can not buy true. love you can't even buy love or friend ship. Im sure there's people who have tried. For i wouldn't even think about it. You can buy a hoover. But even then. Real happnes is not a long term thing

You can buy a puppy and that would be a real
real love and more real than any thing else.

[Chazmatazz269]

You can rent affection. Most of it is faked by people anyway. It’s only the intent behind the deceit that changes from one person to the next.

[contentious]

I'd say money strongly influences the feelings of roughly 80% of women. So in a way, yes you can buy someone's love if they are female. It's fucking disgusting how so many women behave that way. I mean like turn in my stomach want to puke in their face when they act like that, but it's a reality... You can be an Adonis, very smart, a great listener, a great communicator, funny, confident, talented, honest, reliable, etc. and while many women will be attracted to you, it's the money that really flips the switch in most of their brains. If you avoid talking about money they're constantly digging looking for that nugget of gold and if you even hint at small amounts of financial success it's a light switch that you can visibly observe in their facial body language the very moment they hear about it like they just won the fucking lotto. It doesn't matter where you are at the moment, they just do it like a dude awkwardly popping a boner out in public and just standing there in front of everyone like it's normal. They aren't even embarrassed about it.

[Kaneki05]

Yes but it's more so the money allows you to build that relationship in the first place. There's dozens of girls wouldn't give me a chance once they find out I'm poor and don't work but if I was rich more would therefore more possibility of finding someone who likes you.

Naturally you will get those just fishing for the money but it does give you more a chance in the dating world therefore I think it does, it's not as clean cut as I'll buy you for certain amount but it's the idea they won't be swayed out of trying to date you.

[Screenwriter]

You could make a financial deal with someone to have them hang around with you BECAUSE you support them and give them things. Someone might be grateful to get taken care of in this manner, but gratefulness is not love.

Here's the lyrics of "Can't Buy Me Love," by Lennon and McCarthy.

I buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel all right. I give you anything thing my friend, if it makes you feel all right. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love. Can't buy me love. Everybody tells me so. Can't buy me love. No, no no, NO!!!

Say you don't need no diamond ring, and I'll be satisfied. Tell me that you want the kind of things that money just can't buy. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love!

And there you have it. The Beatles said it in the 1960s and it's true.

[Benjiman19]

If I was to win something like that at all (let's be real, I'm not that lucky) I definitely wouldn't flaunt it about to anyone. Especially not family or friends or even a random person who I've just asked on a date. I want someone who will love me for myself. For my personality and my heart. Not for the amount of money I have. I could care less about money. However, I would invest it. If I was to win something like the Powerball and then to fall in love with the right woman and have a family of my own, I'd live comfortably enough and make sure they were all taken care of by the time my life was over.

[Sal_Monella]

Edited.

I'll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright
I'll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
'Cause I don't care too much for money
But money can't buy me love

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too
I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you
I don't care too much for money
But, money can't buy me love

Say you don't need no diamond rings and I'll be satisfied
Tell me that you want the kind of things that money just can't buy
I don't care too much for money
Money can't buy me love.

You can't buy someone's love with your money.
But you can buy their love with your love.

[Orion84]

No, I don't.

If they don't love already you, then "buying" their love will not make them love you. It will just make them love your money. I would never trust anyone whose feelings for me changed because I suddenly had money.

[Purpleronnie]

Even if I thought I could , why would I want to? The love , rather ironically , would have no value , just superficial and a love for what you have rather than who you are.


Being accepted , supported , cared for and loved for who I am. This makes me as rich as any man.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

No.

You can buy attention, comfort, distraction, even temporary affection but not love.

Real love isn’t a transaction.

It’s who someone is when you have nothing to offer them except yourself.

Money might open the door,
but the heart stays closed unless it feels safe, seen, and genuinely wanted.

[avery58]

If you mean will they love you just for buying them the lastest phone model, no. But money buys opportunities, like special details that turn into memories which very well could turn into love when you pair it with compatibility and emotional nurturing. Money has both good and bad use, the good use is why most people like it.

[avery58]

So I would say that rather than directly buying love, it buys opportunities

[slatyb]

No, I do not. You might be able to attract their attention. I had a colleague who became wealthy on the stock of a startup company. He was careful to hide his wealth from women he was dating because he wanted to know that they genuinely cared for him and not his money.

[RavVid]

It seems to be that rich men can attract more beautiful women. So I think the answer has to be broadly yes.

But to be rich you have to have certain qualities. So it could be a double whammy that women are attracted to wealth but they are also attracted to qualities that lead to wealth.

It starts becoming a chicken and egg prob.

[Circushowcowboy]

I don’t think it can straight up buy love. I do think having money makes everything easier. There will be less you have to struggle through together and stress over with that much money allowing you to avoid a good chunk of hardships that relationships often include.

[scott04sa22]

transactional love is getting more common now. The last person I was talking with started demanding weekly payments. Do yourself a favor and find a people who are hard working then dealing with people who loves money. You want people who wants genuine connections and relationships. Its a good start if they can cook foods then always doing doordashing all the time.

[lucas262]

No. Bezos is divorced, gates is divorced. Musk is divorced. No amount of looks, money or status will keep a woman loyal to you forever. And no amount of sex appeal will keep a man loyal forever. The difference is the system in place rewards women regardless if the guy did wrong or did nothing wrong. You can buy just about anything from a person but genuine love I dont believe you can

[Pearl222]

Even if I could, I wouldn’t because love that needs to be bought or that’s not freely given, is not love at all; it’s desire.

[Dongie]

Ehh, that's youth speaking. True love comes but to a few.

[Pearl222]

Which is why it’s better to wait that buy it from someone who isn’t ready to love you

[Dongie]

What would I be waiting on?

[molonski2]

Of course not , you can buy their time , and maybe some interest but that's it.

All that being said , never sell down , or go with economically challenged if your plan is a relationship , never , ever down financially, that's complete problem.

[Unycorn]

No. You can buy time someone spend with you. Meaning. Kisses. Sex. But real love? I doubt it. That can grow over a while spending time together. But the basic might be false.

[WhitneySnow]

No. You can’t buy love. The person will only care about the billion dollars, not you.

[UpaRupa]

people are often very gracious when given a gift especially a life changing one, as long they have a choice and aren't a sociopath i'd say odds are good

[mysteriousNicholas]

Until those billions aren't around anymore @WhitneySnow

[serious]

No, that will not be possible. Money cannot buy love. Money can buy materialistic things but not love.

[Anonymous]

If you won a billion dollars you would have girls coming out of the woodwork. It wouldn't necessarily be love, it probably wouldn't be, but you'd have all the sex you want with as many girls as you want.

[strateguy632]

No, but she might reconnect because she wants some money. Many new "friends" to beware from them.

[RageBabe]

No, you can't buy someone's true love. Money, however, can affect the dynamics of relationships by facilitating stability and comfort.

[sage2021]

I don't believe people can buy love with money. They aren't in love with the person who has the money - they are in love with the the money.

[DryGermanGuy]

https://youtu.be/srwxJUXPHvE?si=XLhr1DVF4k4wiR3r

[UpaRupa]

really depends on ones definition of love, that can be a discussion on its own but as i view it can probability easily get you like 40% there 80% if your not a complete ass hole/physical unattractive.

[Dongie]

Yes!

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Nope, but I will RENT their time and attention, then discard the gold-digging trash when I'm done.

[jazzy34]

Hmm nah. It’s giving desperate. Like, “here’s a million dollars. Please date me.” Bleh, no thanks. 🙅🏾‍♀️

[DonaldDarko]

Of course not. I can buy their services maybe I can hire servants, mechanics and what ever else but love can't be bought or sold.

[FreyaRed]

You can buy fake admiration, you can't buy love.

[Communicationisking]

Me no. But sadly yes I think some people could.

[OneViewpoint]

No, love isn't a conscious decision. Neither is loyalty. But you can buy their compliance.

[Nikki1989]

True love is priceless. Money alone will never buy it.

[dustybiker2]

The opposite. I would either hide the win or never trust their love.

[thegreenyogi]

No I don't and neither would I want to try doing that.

[mysteriousNicholas]

simslover92 not unless they're being paid for their services lol 😔😆
Lady , you gamble?

[Dennisjf12]

Not really, I believe that you can only buy their affiliation for only as long as you have any money & when the money's gone so is she. Dennis

[Xawyx-2]

No, it's easier to get married if you win billion dollars, but that's mostly because they like your money.

[Coden7]

I don’t think so. People who are used to taking, will always be happy to take more, and move on when they can’t.

[Shiprex]

It not love but access to their life you could have.

[Phoenix98]

Would it even be worth it? It wouldn't be real.

[lorenzomichael]

No I don’t think money can buy you love or happiness but it sure could buy you a nice boat to sail around all your misery.

[Anonymous]

Love, no. You can buy attention and affection though.

[MannMitAntworten]

No. You may be able to purchase their attention/company but you cannot purchase someone’s adoration.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope, cause love cannot be bought with money!
They will love the money but not you...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Someone's true affection and emotional love is 100% freely givin.

Money can buy almost anything except love, respect and health.

[dudeinohio]

No. Just a lot of gold diggers interested in only money.

[Staximus]

Buy love? That's like paying somebody to love your money

[Dongie]

Nah, you can buy enough of their time that they may fall for you.

[Dongie]

And, I would sure give it one hell of a try!!

[captain_voidwalker]

Of corse you can "love" has always been a transactional thing

[msc545]

Not love - but someone who fakes it really well for enough money.

[Skyros]

Never. That’s like saying, “could I buy some time back or the health to cure my cancer?” That’s just not how it works sadly.

[Kingofkings1992]

No. You can an attract someone’s presence (usually the wrong type of people), but genuine love has nothing to do with money

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can never buy love cause people can't control whom they love

[Curious_Wife]

No of course not. The person would love your money, not you.

Forget it.

[Studders33]

Yes but it wouldn't actually be love it would just be for the company in an aspect

[BullBear]

Absolutely if love is saleable then money can buy anything...
What you think cutie?

[Sunkiss_]

No cause then you loss them if you lose your job or money they be gone.

[Anonymous]

Not looking to buy anyone's love not looking to buy anyone