When should you tell someone you’re inexperienced?

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I’m talking about dating/relationships and sex.  Honestly, I think when someone asks you out. Before you say yes to a date, let them know right then and there.

slatyb · Accepted Answer

You do not have to disclose that, as it should not be a deal-breaker for anyone. The things you have to disclose are things that could affect your partner or their willingness to continue the relationship: an STD infection like HSV, HIV; partial or full custody of a child, or other serious responsibilities that would affect your ability to participate in a relationship; serious health problems; being transgender; lack of interest in monogamy; sexual needs beyond the usual (e. g. kinky needs); etc.

You don't have to disclose all these on the first date; sexual preferences can wait until there is some trust and it that sex is imminent.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You don’t have to. Men really don’t care about a girl’s experience. Unless it’s for a one night stand. But if you’re inexperienced they would prefer that as opposed to a girl who’s ridden the baloney pony a zillion times. When a man comes into a girl’s life he tends to like being the first for many of her first time experiences. Like taking her to Hawaii, overseas, etc, etc. It brings him happiness to me that first for a lot of her first time things.

Mr_twoface · Answer

I would say after the first or second date depending on how it goes. If you have a chemistry and you are eager to meeting again, then you should be transparent about your sexual experience. It should come naturally rather once you get into that subject.

Berethor · Answer

If he ask you yes, be honest, if he don't ask it is still better to tell him before you have sex.

Hellur991 · Answer

Yeah for a women they care about mentioning before hand. When topic gets heated in the moment that's when you mention it to him. But we wouldn't really care, compared to a guy if he was inexperienced women would care because now a days their looking for experienced men

exitseven · Answer

Why bring it up at all. ? It is not the big deal everybody says it is.

zagor · Answer

When they ask you to take control of the plane. Oh you mean sex. I would say let them find out for themselves. Like when you try to put your dick in her ear.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

For a woman, it's not necessary to even mention it. All you have to do is lay on your back and spread your legs. How much experience do you need for that?

dudeinohio · Answer

I'd say sometime during the talking stage... or if directly asked out, then sometime during the first date.

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's refreshingly honest but I wouldn't until I was sure of impending intimacy.

Anonymous · Answer

Not unless they bring it up. Why would you? It doesn't affect your value as a human being. If they think so, they probably not the right person for you.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

If things are moving in that direction and you’re scared, fair to say and talk it through. Otherwise, don’t.

NathanDavis · Answer

might be kind of obvious anyway

LaurenM1997 · Answer

Yeah I would tell them

Kelly6 · Answer

@peridot25 Best is asap

noohair · Answer

Do what you feel right with communication.

cootjuhh · Answer

when you end up in bed.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I agree.

eagle1951 · Answer

right away

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