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#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?

I met this great guy. We’re both Christian, not into smoking/drinking, good sense of humor, monogamous, great conversationalists/listeners, respectful, low body count, and have similar interests. But…

He’s younger than I’d prefer. I normally date 3-4 years up/down and he’s definitely outside of that.

He seems to get bored easily which he blames his ADHD but I feel due to his age as well that I won’t hold his interest long.

He is moving a bit fast. (Most of you know I just got out of a relationship and we were still banging early April plus we just cut eachother completely last Friday, so I’m not really ready to straight up date yet.) At least this guy stated that he is also not ready for anything sexual, but he's 100% ready for a relationship. I just wanted to get to know someone and maybe hangout at a theme park. I move on fast but I don’t want a relationship the same month one ended. I had that bad habit in 2019.

He says he's not clingy but he’s already lovebombing. I find lonewolves who walk their own path sexy but he's a loner who doesn’t seem to have friends and tends to crave some company.

We haven’t known eachother that long but he’s ready for an ALL DAY DATE next weekend which I’m not against but he’s already saying things like “in this relationship” and “once your family meets me” and “I’ve told my fam I got a cougar!” and “I’ve already deleted all my social media/dating apps. Do you have any? Did you delete yours? Do I have any exes to worry about? Am I the only one? Is there anyone else? When do we make this official?”….

I mean he’s saying and asking a lot of the right things but like damn, he’s talking like we’re already together and at times sounds like jealousy/trust may become an issue. I don't know what I could have said to give that impression when I made sure to keep saying that I just want to keep getting to know one another. Maybe the age difference brought on misunderstanding? #FeelFreeToList

#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?
#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?
#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?
#1 What’s the youngest you feel comfortable dating AND #2 what do you think of this situation?
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