What’s the youngest and oldest you have dated?

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I started dating late at 21 after I graduated from university. And the youngest I’ve dated was my ex fiancé who was 23 year old when we met.

I always thought I liked younger men and I strictly opposed dating older men until months after a break up with my ex fiancé. He was 27 when we broke up. At that time I realized young men don’t always know what they want and they sometimes change in a totally different way. They grow into somebody else. I was very traumatized by the heartbreak and decided to give it a try and date an older man as well, as I thought an older man would be more mature and I would be free of the possibility of him totally changing into someone else. So, I could have felt more secure.

The oldest man I dated briefly was as old as my mom at 47. I would never picture myself liking anyone that older than me and I was honestly surprised to be proven wrong. But he was quite attractive and interesting and I am sure a lot of other girls would be attracted to him. Plus, the fact that he was the same age as my mom, kind of felt like a taboo and bonus excitement.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I’ve never dated anyone more than 3 years older than me or more than 5 years younger than me.

After university though, the youngest person I dated was 20 years old. And I’m still with her, 5 years later.

I don’t really put a whole lot of weight on age though — it’s about how emotionally mature they are, regardless of age (since there are middle-aged people who literally still throw tantrums like children).

And some people have thought deeply and have truly come to know themselves and what they stand for at an earlier age, while others don’t know what they want to do with their life until they hit their mid-life crisis.

This is why I believe that one’s philosophy on love, life, and purpose is an very good topic to explore to get to know just how well someone knows themselves.

The more concrete that is, the less likely they will make any drastic changes in terms of who they are.

andreasderjuengere · Accepted Answer

I'm in service for a while already.

Thus...

the youngest was 16

the oldest was 58

(I am aware that this is not at all a helpful answer...)

Early on I ''dated'' around my own age.

In between I did not care.

Meanwhile I ''date'' those who aren't ''retired'' yet, but close enough in mental evolution.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

youngest was 9 (i was also 9) and oldest 21. though i was kinda in a thing that might have counted as a relationship maybe, if that counts then my oldest would be 29

lilBigPotato · Accepted Answer

I prefer guys to be older than me. The youngest has been 19 and oldest 27.

AviatorTom · Answer

I've been around for awhile. My youngest date was 13 (we were both 13) and my oldest was 70.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Me too, a 40 year old briefly. It felt wrong. It felt awkward. It felt humiliating, desperate and degrading even. I didn't want anyone to find out, especially my mom. But damn, this woman knew all the right things to say to me to get me going and few women made me as aroused as she did.

Youngest was 19, which I know seems too young, but she was really mature for her age and really into me.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Fuck it ima say something on this, I took offense to the young nigga shit, just cause your ex was garbage doesn't mean every young nigga is, I know exactly what I want, this shit is an L no lie, this crap rubbed me off so wrong, but ey it's kinda fucked up to just blame the ex, maybe homie realized shit

Bricealan · Answer

I had a very interesting and attractive woman in her late 50's or early 60's when I was 30 something. To this day I regret not making it a hot sexual relationship rather than cutting it short like I did. Done is done.

msc545 · Answer

I think the relative difference is what's important, not the actual age of the person you're dating. In other words, if I'm 20 years old and I'm dating somebody that is 40, that's a 20 or difference. If I'm 30 years old and I'm dating somebody who is 60, that's a relative difference. The two things are not comparable.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Age differences: Older= 17 years, 2 months older Younger = 10 weeks younger Ages: Youngest = 18 (when I was 14 and 15) Oldest = 41

LavLavLuv · Answer

Youngest was 20, I was 20.. Oldest was 42, I was 22

Guido · Answer

When I was 19, I dated a woman 24 so 5 years older but all the rest were from 1 year younger to 2 years older.

Drewtate · Answer

A 40 year old divorcee when I was 15. There's no future in it but older women are good practice

Sevenpointfive · Answer

lowest was 6 years. old highest was 43 years. old

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Youngest: 18 Oldest: 58 or 59. But, I also fucked her back when she was 23.

exitseven · Answer

I dated a girl who was 17 when I was 21 and I dated a girl who was 27 when I was 22.

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

My ex wife was a couple months older and the youngest was 29 when I was 51

Nifrayu · Answer

I dated someone 2 years younger than me as the youngest. The oldest was 7 months younger than me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never dated younger and never will. I have dated much older, though.

historectomy · Answer

i really only date girls my age or 5 years older, i think oldest was like 43

Masterodd · Answer

Never been with an older, older woman... maybe 2 or 3 years older than myself. Younger...18 to 20 every week.

loveslongnails · Answer

"Dated" would not be the proper term to describe things. LOL

AVirgoMan · Answer

I think a maximum of 3 and at least 6 is most appropriate.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah I'm not desperate that I have to be with my mom age women... I get women at my age around me anytime i want. ✌️

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