Do you prefer to date a dominant or a submissive partner? Younger or older?

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Phoenix98 · Accepted Answer

Inside the bedroom I'd prefer that they be like me a switch, someone who can alternate between being aggressive and dominant or gentle/soft and submissive. But I generally like em more on the aggressive side it's more fun that way, passionate and it's more enjoyable when they fight it a little when you take that power away. Or when they try to take it from you. Life and love is a battlefield after all.

Outside the bedroom I prefer playful/teasing and dominant just because I like to be challenged and be provided a challenge and I find strength in any form attractive. And someone like that is more likely to enjoy the things I enjoy and be able to keep up with me when doing them.

Nileviewboy · Accepted Answer

im married to an arab woman... she can easily play both roles in a flick of a button...

i think i need both... i lead a very lone and mildly opressive childhood and teenhood.. so i was used to following a strict regime, but at the same time i need to be able to control (semi dominate) to keep that happy equilibrium.

i dont control what she wears, what she eats, where she goes or who she sees... i respect her privacy.. but we control and capitulate 50 50...

she's 1 year younger than me. I've dated both older and younger women... either doesn't really faze me.

mooky06 · Accepted Answer

I’d like him to be dominant outside of the bedroom. He should be able to alt between being dominant and submissive in the bedroom and be older then me.

I’m dominant outside of the bedroom and in the bedroom. But i’m willing to be submissive for the right person in the bedroom.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I like submissive guys, about my age, or slightly younger, or moderately older. Switch guys are ok too, but I'm always on top. If I like a dominant guy, I'll just convert him into submissive ;)

AmandaYVR · Answer

I reject the concept entirely.

MrOracle · Answer

Submissive and younger. This is the way.

imthatsteve · Answer

Age doesn't matter much to me. Id prefer someone who can be either dom or submissive. Id love to do a bit of role play with different scenarios and play with power dynamics a bit.

Things like doctor/patient, teacher student, boss/employee. But i think it would be fun to turn the power dynamics upside down. And have the student blackmail/seduce the teacher for example.

Iron_Man · Answer

I like a woman to bring something to the table that has knowledge and great strength and great character, but I don’t want her to dominate me or to be a shot caller mean or stubborn to me. I want her to work along side with me and to give me great opinions. I want her to take charge of other people when doing business or handling personal things but not with my family being tough on us

WowwGirl · Answer

There we are

Kurαȷ · Answer

I would prefer to date someone who doesn't identify as dominant, but at the same time doesn't like the idea of being submissive. If that makes sense.

HartleyB · Answer

Submissive only and willing to take some bdsm and I don't care about the age or gender as long as they are over 18 years old

MzAsh · Answer

Hypothetically, prefer an equal partner but if I had to choose I prefer submissiveness in my man.

StarryCrossing · Answer

I do both lol. But, if I had to chose I like being a sub. :)

thegirlfromthething · Answer

Older and dominant in bed but equal in other aspects of the relationship.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I like em dominant in bed, submissive outside of bed. I would like someone same age or a year younger/older

MrTuxedo · Answer

I prefer submissive, tho a switch isn't bad either. I generally dated girls my age, tho I wouldn't have a problem dating someone a bit younger or older than me.

alice55 · Answer

dominant (but not to the point where he don't care about my opinion and feelings) and around my age (older people make me feel uncomfortable).

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 'just' 20, but she's very dominant and assertive. She's even taller than me.

Yann1mlk · Answer

Being a somewhat submissive person irl, I prefer having a submissive person in bed. Younger but older wouldn't make a difference

Kyle247 · Answer

Submissive and younger in most cases. At 19 and up though. Then on rare occasions experimenting with switching the roles but only if we were in a serious relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I like a mix of both, sometimes I want a person who can take control but sometimes I want someone who can let me take control

nodnol32 · Answer

I don't mind a balance but seems like her being more dominant is what suits me. Same age is what I prefer.

Unit1 · Answer

Neither. I want an equal partner, not a master and not a servant.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Intermediate, and I don't care thaaaat much about age, he can be a bit younger (3-4 years at most) or older (8-10 years at most)

Thomas__Shelby · Answer

If she’s younger, I’ll likely be dominant, older, and the opposite is true.

I really like both, on one hand younger girls are usually easier to get, but older girls are easier to “be get” because they generally show more interest to you.

yenofed840 · Answer

love matters. Have you seen rivers do not believe in oceans

love_and_laughter · Answer

In the bedroom I like a woman to take charge usually so I’d say dominant and I generally prefer somewhat older women over younger ones.

Massageman · Answer

They would pretty much HAVE to be younger - - - - :- ) Either on the power play, tho =- = = =

DavidHart · Answer

Submissive and i don't really mind the age as i've dated a woman 9 years older.

DudeDiligence · Answer

I'm dominant myself so I only date submissive women. Otherwise it wouldn't be good for either of us.

FreyaRed · Answer

Same age who is good in begging for his life and pain resistant. lel

Jack9949 · Answer

Given my age definitely not younger lol. Women in their 20’s look the best given their maturity is fully developed...

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Older and I tend to dominate all of my relationships.

kitty_91 · Answer

I prefer to date an older VERY dominant man. I am a very submissive woman.

Avicenna · Answer

Younger and equal partner

RockSolidExorcist · Answer

I have been dominant in all my relationships. Now I need something new and creative. I feel I might need an older partner who is more dominant and makes me do things to her.

Even the thought makes me horny. Lol

Fadouaa · Answer

I like em dominant in bed, submissive outside of bed. I would like someone older but not too much just some years between us

mikebeckers · Answer

Age doesn't matter much Prefer her to be dom in the streets, sub in the sheets

Anonymous · Answer

I like dominant masculine man but knows how to be sensitive when the time comes down to it

Kagamine90 · Answer

I would rather have an equal relationship. As for older or younger, ideally she would be in her mid-20s to mid-30s, though I could see myself going as low as early-20s and as high as late-30s if I really loved her.

KeziL · Answer

I prefer a dominant partner around the same age as me.

pantsuhunter · Answer

Sub ofc since I'm not a cuck and Older because they have more life experience, interest is love after all

Anonymous · Answer

I like a younger dominant woman. I like getting pegged and slapped around.

Anonymous · Answer

bit younger who can be both. I'm dominant most of time but sometimes I like when the girls takes reins.

sheikalana · Answer

Dominant but not overly dominant and older than me.

FelizHappy · Answer

Dominant and older. They are so hot in bed

mrsxxx · Answer

I prefer to date a dominant and older partner. :)

kennyw87 · Answer

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creambutter656 · Answer

I like submissive males which are younger than me.

Lambastus76 · Answer

It's complicated; I would rather date someone younger, that submissive in day to day life but can get dominant in bed.

Mossberg500 · Answer

Sub. And it doesn't matter her bio age, I'll take the youthful looking one though. Some women are 35 and look 25, while others are 25 and look 40.

KoenvH · Answer

I think if i had to pick i'd say i prefer sub but i myself am a switch and age i don't really care as long as she's 18

007kingifrit · Answer

younger, submissive, but not so submissive she doesn't speak up because i don't want to always be having to come up with ideas on where i want to go

Anonymous · Answer

A younger, submissive, shorter partner. I don't want her to have anything over me.

makriks · Answer

I would prefer someone who is modest (not dominant and not submissive)

AustinMan · Answer

Submissive and younger with a masochistic streak.

adi_369 · Answer

I would like to switch in both... Girl being submissive for a week or two... And then dominant... Both experience would be amazing..

ShortCircuit · Answer

submissive; same age or slightly younger

Veryhornyjerk2girls · Answer

I prefer a younger girl 18 the lowest and 25 max. I want her submisive and girly😉.

ClosetHoe · Answer

A dominant partner who's around my age.

Anonymous · Answer

Dominant, same age or few years older (I'm 20). No BDSM or Cock and Ball Torture or that depraved shit.

msc545 · Answer

Any of that is fine, although too dominant is a turn off, as is too young.

Anonymous · Answer

Slightly older dominant girl

jessjess13475 · Answer

Dominant and older

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