Do you prefer to date a dominant or a submissive partner? Younger or older?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

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[Phoenix98]

Inside the bedroom I'd prefer that they be like me a switch, someone who can alternate between being aggressive and dominant or gentle/soft and submissive. But I generally like em more on the aggressive side it's more fun that way, passionate and it's more enjoyable when they fight it a little when you take that power away. Or when they try to take it from you. Life and love is a battlefield after all.

Outside the bedroom I prefer playful/teasing and dominant just because I like to be challenged and be provided a challenge and I find strength in any form attractive. And someone like that is more likely to enjoy the things I enjoy and be able to keep up with me when doing them.

[Nileviewboy]

im married to an arab woman... she can easily play both roles in a flick of a button...

i think i need both... i lead a very lone and mildly opressive childhood and teenhood.. so i was used to following a strict regime, but at the same time i need to be able to control (semi dominate) to keep that happy equilibrium.

i dont control what she wears, what she eats, where she goes or who she sees... i respect her privacy.. but we control and capitulate 50 50...

she's 1 year younger than me. I've dated both older and younger women... either doesn't really faze me.

[mooky06]

I’d like him to be dominant outside of the bedroom. He should be able to alt between being dominant and submissive in the bedroom and be older then me.

I’m dominant outside of the bedroom and in the bedroom. But i’m willing to be submissive for the right person in the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

I like submissive guys, about my age, or slightly younger, or moderately older.
Switch guys are ok too, but I'm always on top.
If I like a dominant guy, I'll just convert him into submissive ;)

[AmandaYVR]

I reject the concept entirely.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Of dominant and submissive, or older and younger? Or both?

[AmandaYVR]

Oh sorry. Doms and subs.
Age diffs np.

[MrOracle]

Submissive and younger. This is the way.

[imthatsteve]

Age doesn't matter much to me. Id prefer someone who can be either dom or submissive. Id love to do a bit of role play with different scenarios and play with power dynamics a bit.

Things like doctor/patient, teacher student, boss/employee. But i think it would be fun to turn the power dynamics upside down. And have the student blackmail/seduce the teacher for example.

[Iron_Man]

I like a woman to bring something to the table that has knowledge and great strength and great character, but I don’t want her to dominate me or to be a shot caller mean or stubborn to me. I want her to work along side with me and to give me great opinions. I want her to take charge of other people when doing business or handling personal things but not with my family being tough on us

[Iron_Man]

Younger

[WowwGirl]

There we are

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

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[WowwGirl]

@Agape93

[WowwGirl]

Perfect

[WowwGirl]

Thank you

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

No problem

[WowwGirl]

Thank you @Agape93 for finding it

[Kurαȷ]

I would prefer to date someone who doesn't identify as dominant, but at the same time doesn't like the idea of being submissive.

If that makes sense.

[HartleyB]

Submissive only and willing to take some bdsm and I don't care about the age or gender as long as they are over 18 years old

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

How would you want such a man to approach you? I'm a switch so i can play up either side depending on the girl I'm dealing with, but I'm curious because a lot of domme girls seem to get annoyed with submissive men coming out the woodworks online like "i will be your bitch, please use me mistress" 😂 so would you want a guy to approach you confidently and then later on in the bedroom you find out he's submissive? Or would you prefer if he's more shy and passive from the beginning and follows your lead more in the conversation?

[HartleyB]

@SomeGuyCalledTom doesn't really change much for me I don't date and I don't really go out seeking subs online or at all anymore I already have it all fulfilled now so I don't really think about it 😅

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Ah well good on ya then lol 😊 any advice for a guy who wants to meet a girl with... "interests" such as yours?

[HartleyB]

@SomeGuyCalledTom it is hard because not many other women like to be dominant I don't think, but get yourself out there and make it known you like to be submissive, it will significantly reduce your selection but if that's what you want then we are out here 😅 good luck

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Makes sense.. Thansk😁

[MzAsh]

Hypothetically, prefer an equal partner but if I had to choose I prefer submissiveness in my man.

[thegirlfromthething]

Older and dominant in bed but equal in other aspects of the relationship.

[DizzyDesii]

I like em dominant in bed, submissive outside of bed. I would like someone same age or a year younger/older

[DizzyDesii]

I like to run shit so thats why im the dominant one outside the bedroom

[MrTuxedo]

I prefer submissive, tho a switch isn't bad either.
I generally dated girls my age, tho I wouldn't have a problem dating someone a bit younger or older than me.

[StarryCrossing]

I do both lol. But, if I had to chose I like being a sub. :)

[Anonymous]

I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 'just' 20, but she's very dominant and assertive. She's even taller than me.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Interesting.
How tall are you if I can ask?
I myself am just 166cm so even younger girls are often taller than me.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 5.58

[alice55]

dominant (but not to the point where he don't care about my opinion and feelings) and around my age (older people make me feel uncomfortable).

[Yann1mlk]

Being a somewhat submissive person irl, I prefer having a submissive person in bed. Younger but older wouldn't make a difference

[Kyle247]

Submissive and younger in most cases. At 19 and up though. Then on rare occasions experimenting with switching the roles but only if we were in a serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

I like a mix of both, sometimes I want a person who can take control but sometimes I want someone who can let me take control

[nodnol32]

I don't mind a balance but seems like her being more dominant is what suits me. Same age is what I prefer.

[Unit1]

Neither. I want an equal partner, not a master and not a servant.

[pleasestopthis]

Intermediate, and I don't care thaaaat much about age, he can be a bit younger (3-4 years at most) or older (8-10 years at most)