If I let him touch me and do whatever he wants with me, would he accept to date me?

[Anonymous]

I'm in love with a guy from another city and he's dominant and I'm submissive to the core. I'm so obsessed with him. We do text a lot and I showed him how much I'm weak, vulnerable and submissive so he can take advantage of me or control me as I want, but I feel like he's not interested to get in any relationship because he's not ready for commitment. I tried to understand the reasons from the people who knows him from a long time and I heard that he's into physical touch and I don't like to be touched by anyone because I will regret it according to my restricted beliefs and culture. I'm also so afraid that if I did whatever he wants he ends up leaving me with my regrets. What should I do? I even asked a friend who read tarot for me about this relationship, and she said that he knows that he can't get anything from my relationship because of my restrictions and he won't be satisfied because of them. He did say that before but I couldn't understand what he meant but after what she has said things became clearer. He once said that he doesn't want a relationship because he won't be satisfied and he's afraid of cheating because of that so he prefers not having any relationship at all with anyone.

[Gent207-2]

Two words: WALK AWAY

You are self-aware enough to see how this end. You two will have sex and be worse off then you currently are and heaven help you if your parents find out.

You need to re-evaluate your beliefs on sex and marriage. Sex is the glue that keeps a marriage holds it together. All other activities outside of the bedroom help keep the marriage going. Missuse of one or both is a tragedy waiting to happen.

[Asker]

I hope that I stay self-aware because sometimes I get the thoughts of:
"You only live once."
"If you risked things just for him, he'd appreciate it and take responsibility."
I get so weak by these thoughts and I feel like I want to beg him to take advantage of me and do whatever he wants with me. I should really get rid of those masochistic thoughts because they're going to ruin my life.

[rukus88]

Harsh truth time. He doesn't want a relationship, WITH YOU. He is only interested in sex with you. take it or leave it but make a decision and stand firm

[midnightmoon05]

haha you can find out the hard way.
if they love you… they will respect and date you to know your likes and dislikes… they will not pressure yiu for your body… he is only interested in your body.. you okay with that?

[NoFollowReqestPlz]

No sleeping with someone will not make them want to date you