Girls, let’s just say it’s our first date tonight and you get to choose everything we do. Give me the agenda?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

Right, then let's go over the agenda.

1. We have an agenda to meet in a public park where there are a number of people. It is daytime of course because I don't know you and I want to feel safe, just in case.

2. I come on my own to a predefined meeting point.

3. We stroll through the park and you tell me about yourself and I do the same about myself.

4. Because it is warm, we have a beverage and a small snack. I settle my share and you pick up your own tab. No need to put up false hopes as there are none.

5. After that, you tell me a little more about you and don't forget to mention all the things you actually intended to hide. I will do the same-

6. After the walk in the public park, we shake hands. I watch you leave in your car or taxi and after I see that you left, I make my way home by myself.

How does that sound?

[Asker]

Sounds fun. Can’t wait to hear what date 2 consists of

[SueShe]

Date 2 is still going to take place in a public place, during daylight and I am still going to and coming back from the date on my own.

Since I am certain that you did not tell me the entire truth about yourself, I still will shake your hand. I just could see it in your behavior and the way you avoid certain questions and topics that I consider very important.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Little_Bumblebee]

Hmm there's a place in my city where you can play board games, you can stay there pretty late, so I would probably go there. We can have something to drink, and something simple to eat there if needed depending on time we meet up.
That way we'll interact, but also have something to do so it won't be as awkward.

Or meet up and go for a walk around a park to get to know each other.

There's also a pool house, which could be fun.

Either way, those would be my go-tos

[MzAsh]

My agenda is to not have to write the entire blueprint for the date. I’d like to be taken to a nice restaurant, doesn’t have to be expensive but I like unique local spots. But the rest is on him.