What makes a guy from undateable to dateable?

[Anonymous]

[BonzoInBitburg]

Know what you want in life and have a plan on achieving your goals. The reason why it's easier to find someone when your not looking is because when you focus on improving yourself and becoming a better person, you become more attractive. Put yourself first to become who you want to be and everything else will fall into place

[Asker]

Sometimes, that works for some people, but not all people. The more I think about raising a family, the more that special person won't come

[Fireguy17]

someone who is willing to accept him for who he is at that time.

[Simslover92]

Confidence.

[hellothere90]

Financial stability. Better personality.