There is a girl at my church I'd like to pursue a relationship with. Any advice?

[bepis0_]

I'm a college student, and i hang at my churches student center very frequently. I met a girl this year there and we are friends. We talk when we see each other. we shared numbers, and we text a little, and we're both Catholic.

I'd like to ask her to get ice cream on campus and go for a short walk as a first date.
How can I best ensure she says yes?
How do I treat her before asking?
How should i ask her

[Selene1600000]

You can’t ensure she says yes, but you can make it more likely by being consistent, kind, and showing genuine interest without rushing or overthinking it. Treat her normally as a friend, be respectful, present, and let conversations feel natural instead of trying to impress or perform. When you ask, keep it simple and low pressure like “Hey, would you want to grab ice cream on campus and take a short walk sometime this week?

[MsProsperity]

Just go straight to her and ask her for an cream date. Or ask someone her phone number/Snapchat and start chatting with her to find out her relationship status before asking for an ice cream date

[Anonymous]

Church people are usually mentally unbalanced.

[bepis0_]

Thanks that is the thing I asked