I like this girl in my church group, but what if she has a romantic past?

[LonelyAndBig]

There is this girl in church group that I think is attractive. She is single and in PA school about to graduate.

But I fear she has a romantic past. Like, what if she has had a boyfriend or even a first love? Me and a woman can never say we knew each other when we were both young, so what is the point?

[Cottonpinku]

Key word “past.” Why should that even matter? It’s in the past. She could’ve broke up with someone and that’s in the “past.” Why not just ask her if she’s free? You don’t just go asking people “Did you date someone before?” That’s low key none of your business. I figure what you’re worried about is if she’s still in love. Even so, just ask!

[NotTacocaT6969]

Seeking a partner with no romantic past will lead to being single forever.


Grow the F up and get over yourself.

[TroyDT]

You are limiting yourself to an exceedingly small % of even the church population with those restrictions.

[Guy13]

So what’s the issue 🤷🏻‍♂️

[LonelyAndBig]

I am fearful she has a romantic past. There is no point pursuing anything if there is.

[Guy13]

Virgin-Virgin thing?

[LonelyAndBig]

It doesn't have anything to do with her virginity as much as it is whom she shared her heart with, especially when she was young.

[Guy13]

That’s abstract to me.-sorry, I’m not following.

[Berethor]

So you worried about her being a ho?