Hi, I went out on a date with a catholic women, It went well but in the end, I told her I was separated but the divorce was pending but unfortunately, She didn't want to continue due to her beliefs so we remain friends.
We met up again 2 weeks later after constant messaging but I feel like she is only responding to my messages but on odd occasions, she would initiate the conversation.
anyway, She was a lot less nervous this time round as she didn't have the pressure to impress so yea, it was a friend to friend meet up. It was a fantastic evening and my dopamine levels was high, Next day I was at work and I felt really down and could feel my heart tightening up. Heartache? possibly. Am I falling for her? likely. Is there a way to stop the feeling? Yes. Do I want to leave her out of my life? not really.
She is the sweetest girl I have ever met and has a very calm soothing tone in her voice and I feel I can be myself around her.
I want to remain friends as I don't want to lose her but on the other hand, I don't want to fall for her too deeply so I'm kind of in a dilemma
Do you guys think it's appropriate if ask her if I would still have a chance to continue with dating if I was fully divorced
I really like this girl and I believe she feels the same way and wondered if I would still have a chance with her if my divorce comes through and I get it annulled by the Catholic Church.
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She may be sticking to her Catholic beliefs and waiting for your marriage to be completely ended. I wouldn't " date " until my prospective partner was completely single, just keep the relationship simple.
Stay in touch with her a get through the divorce, then see what happens 😊
Yeah you still got it!
Just ask her if she wants to come roam around with you so that you guys are
"Roamin’ Catholics" 💀
In her eyes and in the eyes of the church you are still married. We don't believe in divorce. She may be willing to live with you and have a non-church blessed marriage.