How to cope with being single at family parties help?

[Sugar100]

My entire family is married or have a boyfriend.

im 26 and never had a first boyfriend. Never had a guy meet family. I spent my entire life watching cousins, step sisters, brother , brothers wife’s sisters all being bfs home, marry & have babies.
I became depressed as I yearn strongly have a boy talk to me at a family party, dress up, take pics with him& he interact with my family& we are happy dancing , eating , etc.

no guy loves me. I’m not a club party girl, my dream was to have 3 sons , but no guy wants a good girl as a girlfriend.
I don't know y people get guys that r so happy proofs arrive to party with girl & no guy is happy excited proud go to my family party & crazy obssesed for me & say to everyone he’s my boyfriend 😞 I don’t understand

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Two’s a couple, three’s company & no one likes to feel like the third wheel on a wagon especially when it comes to family gatherings or outings with friends.

As for me I’m single & accepting applications & if truth be told there is nothing wrong with being single & a lot of people are & a lot of people are happy that way.

In life I always say if you never try you will never know & in life I rather try & fail rather than not try at all. In life you don’t have to be in a relationship to be successful. In life you don’t have to be married to be successful. In life you don’t have to have children to be successful. In life you don’t have to have your dream job to be successful. If you want to be successful it starts with being happy & being who you are.

As for me I always say if you want to meet people you have to get out & greet people. As for you there may be times where you think you have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine versus finding that special someone but lightning can strike & it can strike when you least expect it. As for me I always hear people talking about the light at the end of the tunnel & as for me I always say the light at the end of a tunnel could be a freight train.

As for relationships a lot of people are in relationships. As for marriage a lot of people are married. As for children a lot of people have children. As for relationships a lot of people get into a relationship just to be in a relationship & if I’m going to be in a relationship I rather be in a relationship for the right reasons & not the wrong reasons.

As for being single there is nothing wrong with it. As for being single you have a lot of things a lot of people wished they had. I love my freedom. I love my independence. I love how I don’t have to answer to anyone & I can do whatever I want & don’t have to be home at a certain time unless I have work the next day of course.

Live your life my friend & live it the way you want to live it & live it well.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself & if you ever feel depressed just remember people in relationships or people that are married or have children do get depressed too.

Stop comparing yourself to other people.

Smile Sugar!

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I know you probably won’t read all this bullshit but feel free to give me a thumbs up if you like.

[Sugar100]

I don’t want be single it’s not my dream be single forever til im old

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Well in that case I think you know what you have to do.

[Sugar100]

No guy wants me my boyfriend. Everyone says no they want sex only. No one wants meet my mom and I’m almost 30 😓

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Where are you meeting these jokers?

[Sugar100]

Wen I was 13-18 the guys at schools or job wudnt like me back

[Sugar100]

I wasted time age 22-25 with someone that used me never met my family

[Sugar100]

Then af my new job age late 25 last year I met a crush that liked me back but he got fired August and we weren’t able to meet until December wen he got rehired but we talked only for 3 days as we got separated after and cudnt exchange numbers & Feb we got fired , he seemed like a good guy tho like religous

[Sugar100]

But I’m hoping we both retune be both return back again to the job June July as u need wait 90 days to be rehired

[Sugar100]

The only guy I’m talking to rn is a guy from other state that works at the church

[Sugar100]

But I don't know if he’ll be my boyfriend n meet family

[ManInChains]

Being single doesn't bother me. What bothers me is if and when a family member asks me when I'm going to get a girlfriend when my sister who is the middle child and I'm the oldest she is already married and our brother has a girlfriend. I just laugh and say I'm not looking for anyone to be with because I'm content being alone with my cat.

[Sugar100]

Why u don’t want a girlfriend? U just masterbate or how do u have sex til ur old? U pay someone or what?

[ManInChains]

I've had girlfriends in the past and was unhappy in all 4 relationships. Also I'm not interested in sex or intimacy. I prefer not to waste my money on such things.

[Sugar100]

I’ve never had a boyfriend , I’m trying to find a fist boyfriend.

[Sugar100]

I might need date a guy that’s 18 as only a super young guy will say he neevr had a girlfriend and wants a girlfriend

[Mr_twoface]

Stop being depressed over the situation and do something about it. If you can't find a boyfriend in your close proximity, go on a longer trip, study abroad, go to speed date events... do something other than your comfort zone to find someone who likes you for you!

[Sugar100]

I want a label as a girlfriend , meet family, it’s giving me anxiety as how many months I need wait for a label and to meet family? I fear my time will be wasted. It’s like a waiting Game wen I’ll meet family? Wen he’ll ask to be my boyfriend? Will he deny be my boyfriend?

[Sugar100]

It’s like nonstop anxiety

[Sugar100]

I already met someone that lives in a far state

[Bklynbadboy12]

So that doesn't make you a bad person and I'm sure nobody in your family I'd worried about whether your married or not