I have never been out on any dates?

[scott04sa22]

I have never been out on any dates with anymore, I know everybodys 1st dates are different. I know sex sometimes happens. if it happens, it's happens. She's been patient with me because I haven't made the move on her or how to break the ice with her. I have asked people out, but I always get rejected. I don't want to come in too strong with her

[RespectfulGuy]

My suggestions:

1. Learn to engage in small talk and friendly without sexual overtones.

Yes, you're desperate to date and probably have sex.

But fake it if you must, never show it. It's the #1 turn off. Girls can smell your desperation from far and already getting away.

2. Learn to dress casually and put on light cologne. If you don't know how to dress up, watch some Hollywood movies and see how young people dress to meet friends in public areas.

Yes, don't overdress. You're not getting married neither are you going for a job interview.

And don't expose too much flesh.

3. Learn to speak confidently. Do not murmur. Make every word clear and easily heard and understood.

This is especially important when you invite her for tea.

Yes, just tea. A bistro within walking distance. Mention the nice cheese cake there. Or how you enjoyed the cuppa and want to give her a treat.

Simple statement like "let me buy you a coffee and cheese cake. Meet me at... Place... around... Time..."

Yes, just like that. Practice the delivery in front of a mirror if you need to. Be confident, be inviting, be casual. Just speak your heart. Your sincerity will be felt.

4. Finally, understand that girls are sexual being too. They WANT to be asked out. If she's single and she finds you sincere and nice, she'll say yes.

[strateguy632]

you should tell her aboutt your family and ask her about her family

[HeftyLefty]

What kind of stuff did you and your exes do when you were together? Any reason you wouldn’t call those dates?

[scott04sa22]

1st ex-girlfriend was LDR

2rd ex-girlfriend was too busy dating dudes behind my back

[HeftyLefty]

So you never actually saw either of them?

[LiamJHayden]

Wow. I do not ever remember spending a bunch of time pursuing one girl. I always cast a large net and do not worry about those who avoid it.