Guys, what would you do if your girlfriend doesn’t like your friend?

[Xia1994]

There’s just a friend you have who your girlfriend really doesn’t like, what would you do about it?

[Finchie40]

It would depend on how important that friend is to me , if it was a friend that I knew before meeting her? ? She is shit out of luck , sorry I knew them way longer than I knew her , but if it’s a friend I made after being with her? Than I would distant myself from that friendship , to respect her and I’’s relationship together. But she needs to understand , she has to do the same thing for me in return , if she ends up meeting a friend , that I do not like or it will turn into a double standard and sadly she will be the one to blame. So really ask yourself? why you do not like his so called friend of his? What is the main reason you don’t like this friend? Are you jealous of them or do you have a hard time trusting them? You are best to have a sit down talk with your boyfriend and express your feelings of concern with his friendship with this person , make sure you have valid reasons not to like this person before talking to your boyfriend about it , if your partner loves and cares about you? They will distant their friendship with this person out of respect for your relationship together, understand this same issue applies to you as well.

[Flatmanlewis]

That could go either way. Perhaps my friend is an idiot and I should be receptive to at least hearing what she has to say. Truth is I would kind of know if he is anyhow. This can particularly be the case if he’s a hard partying boy refusing to grow into manhood.


Equally possible in my life experience is she is a manipulative woman and sees the one true voice of truth and reason in my close circle whom, being far more concerned about my happiness than her end goals, represents a threat to her plans and ploys and must be removed from the equation.


It’s hard to say for sure.

[Kaneki05]

Good for her I guess?
That's got nothing to do with her so don't see the issue. It's my friend not hers. She can say and feel how she wants don't mean I have to. And don't mean she has to interact with said person either.
Though I am clingy so I'll spend a lot of time with my girlfriend to the point it would more limit my interactions with my friend I suppose. But that really depends on the friend and if I am clingy with them too.

[Still-alive]

Depends on why she doesn't like him/ if he's being creepy or hitting on her, ill tell him to knock it off or we won't hang out anymore.

if she just doesn't like his personality then... well i guess we can hang without her from time to time.

if she tells me to drop my friend for her she can go f*** herself though. fuck that narcissistic controlling shit right there.

[blackgaletiger]

She doesn't have to like my friends my friends dont have to like her. Friendships and relationships are 2 different ships that dont have to cross. Continue having your structure with her and as well as the friends

[Serkee]

If she doesn't like my friend, she doesn't have to talk to him. But if you're asking if I'll break off a friendship just because my girlfriend doesn't like my friend, no. Absolutely not.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've got really good friends so she's the problem

[Drumlin2001]

She dosent have to like all my friends. And these days I barely get to see friends anyway, too busy with work and kids

[Rangers]

I'd try to mend the differences and get them to like eachother

[Revolutioner_83]

i do not talk about him to her and do not get together

[KrakenAttackin]

So many women immediately try to isolate a man from his friends. This is a major red flag.

[captain_voidwalker]

This

[Anonymous]

Get rid of the friend. If they choose their friend over you, they're a misogynist.

[nawtee_me]

Get a new girlfriend

[Bklynbadboy12]

That depends on what friend

[In_Trance]

It's my friend not hers so it doesn't matter

[JustAnotherGuy09]

Bro's before hoes

[jahaims]

Ask her why

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Get a new girlfriend