What was the reason why I had bad experiences with some previous boyfriends but a good experience with one guy?

[Spatmates25]

I had started talking to one guy in real life and did say my name and did say his name back to me. Didn't talk that much. I didn't have much time. I did say see ya and did the same back. It was a good experience. My experience with some previous exbfs were bad experiences , some exbfs did cheat on me and the last exbf was turned out to be toxic. Most of my previous did all ended. i'm can only date or be in a relationship with moderate learning disabilities. I know not all guys are the same. Some guys can be bad and some guys can be real good. I just had bad luck with some previous relationships. What was the reason why I had bad experiences with some previous boyfriends but a good experience with one guy?

[Oliverlogan263]

There could be a few potential reasons for the differences in your experiences:

- It may have partly just been bad luck that some guys turned out to not be trustworthy or treat you right. Dating is a gamble and not everyone's a good match.

- Your previous exes may have had their own issues going on under the surface that caused them to act in hurtful ways, like cheating or being toxic. Not necessarily anything to do with you.

- This new guy seems like he was respectful and genuine right off the bat by just having a normal friendly hello and saying your names. That's usually a good sign.

- With experience, you may have also gotten better at reading people and spotting red flags earlier on. So you chose to interact with someone who seemed like good boyfriend material.

- It could be you were in different headspaces with different guys. Maybe you were younger or less self-aware with past relationships, so ended up with people who weren't the best for you.

Overall, don't be too hard on yourself - we've all had relationships that didn't work out. Seems like you've learned what you want from this new interaction. Wishing you all the best going forward! Keep trusting your instincts.

[Wise4myage]

Chemistry, its all about chemistry.