What can I do to improve my chance of a new boyfriend and have some bad experience with some previous ex-boy boyfriend?

[SplatoonFan2]

I have more than one boyfriend. I had 9 ex-boyfriends. some of them were no good but some were bad. some did cheat. did has some girls has friends just to use my trust to get guys temp to cheated while in college. college relationships are not worth it. also, I had one flaw of can be jealous only when I sometimes get into relationship with a person. I am single at the time. and am 24-year-old women with a learning disabity. did get a lot attention from boys through high school and through college. I am now graduate from college, hasn't been lucky with guys in real life since some of them I met already are in relationship or has met one ex-boyfriend. has be trying online dating apps. seen some red flags and do I also have any red flags row make sure. to be very careful. just has be very hard with starting with new people and that has been happing lots. ghosting has few times. I know some guys will used me. I am just looking for a serious long-term relationship. without playing games. not many people go out in real life anymore. one flaw of mine is jealous. There are two of myself. If I'm doing anything wrong or not getting a boyfriend.

[oddwaffle]

You need a make over. You need to feel beautiful and sexy. You need to appear sexy and lovely. You need to believe you are better than everyone else.

You also need to work full time.

You are at the prime if your life. Put on your war paint, learn make up and invest in yourself to make you more beautiful. Most women can appear beautiful as long as they work towards it.

Contrary to what the guys say, a strikingly beautiful woman will make them look. It will make them interested. They will all say they want "real, authentic, honest" girl but I will bet my left nut the first thing they all want to see is a beautiful looking woman.

Next you will want to look for the guys who want a long term relationship. Most men pass the age of 30 will either look to settle or just roll into the single life.

The most important thing is that they have to be financially stable. It doesn't mean they have to be rich but they have to have a decent job or a craft that have steady income. Professionals and small business owners tend to be best. Artists, gig workers, designers and general creative jobs people are less stable. Blue collar workers with good certification and dedication tend to be married by their 30s so don't expect to find good ones.

[SplatoonFan2]

One I am not alone interested in is guys that are 30+.

[SplatoonFan2]

Not interested in guys 30+ I am not interested being sexy. That how I going to get lots of whore men that I don't want.

[oddwaffle]

That's too bad. You could always look for desperate guys who will bang anything warm and promise you the world. Why would anyone be interested in you? Your personality? Men aren't often gay. They like women because they are women, not because of their amazing personality.

Do you think a guy in his 20s who can't even afford to keep himself fed is going to worry about long term? Most of them are saving to break their virginity or just have 20 girlfriends lined up.

[SplatoonFan2]

I am not looking for guys in 20. Is has been with guys with learning disability.

[coachTanthony]

Sounds like you need therapy. Try that then go out and look for a relationship. It's not enough to say what your flaws are without going out and trying to heal those traumas that caused them in the first place.

[SplatoonFan2]

What if I already have tried to be Therapy than once. They always finished on me they said I don't need Therapy anymore.

[coachTanthony]

I could have 10 recommendations here and you would have an answer for all of them wouldn’t ya? Lol

[SplatoonFan2]

It depends. My mum is very picky with who I can date or be relationship for having a learning disability that I don't like. Have to date men with learning disability or I couldn't even date ever.

[coachTanthony]

Your MUM as you put it has nothing to do with you you see or not see unless you allow her to dictate what you you do and don't do. So I would ask.. isn't that on you? I know I know it depends.

[SplatoonFan2]

One I can't control my mum. I can only control myself. My mum will never relax the rules of dating. So I don't have any other choice. My mum is very strict when it comes to my own life or you should only date learning disability men or you will never date again.

[Guy13]

Be "You" and comfortable in who you are and that can be sensed. People enjoy being around that vibe as it projects a realness to you. Purpose, Goals, and a Vision including likes and dislikes etc, are also helpful in improving probability of success. I am not an expert, you know !!

[SplatoonFan2]

I am not sure about being myself. I can get very bad jealous around some girls that I knew are too good for me being friends when I was in relationships. I went to special disability college and high school.

[Chickenuggets]

Quit looking. You don’t need a long term you need to be happy alone first.

[SplatoonFan2]

Is that all.

[Nahid1707]

What do you make of a night out in Liverpool?😊

[SplatoonFan2]

I don't like clubbing. I am only allow to date men with a learning disability since I got a stupid learning disability.

[Nahid1707]

i knew you are a user in England

Yea, i heard of the night club of Liverpool when i went there in September 😅

I understand
My advice is don’t date straight away
Get to know him 😊

I wouldn’t have known that, you seem quite normal whenever i saw your answers and opinions on here

[SplatoonFan2]

I am OK with texting and still not sure where to go from dating. I have always struggled with dating through this year and year before dating Has been a shit show. Thanks to covid that I can't even meet men with a learning disability.

[Nahid1707]

I understand 😊

[In_Trance]

Keep it. Stay focused on what you want

[SplatoonFan2]

Keep what. Stay focused on myself or find others things . real life hasn't really worked out with dating. I have been trying online dating since I can't find any guys in real life.

[In_Trance]

I would recommend you change where you're looking because there's over 3 billion men on this planet.

[SplatoonFan2]

Recommend the chances of men. I can only date men with a learning disability. I live in the Uk that I can't travel by plane to get a date.

[jimmy2]

Go to a singles club T a church

[SplatoonFan2]

I am not interested in clubs or T or church