How do I get rid of the loneliness feeling?

[Anonymous]

i live in the middle of nowhere for school. med student go to clinic 8 till 6 then gym 6-7 then just study 7-12am then repeat. I live in the middle of nowhere there is no guy of my ethnicity here. I used to talk to a guy LDR talk 10 pm till 2-3 am and would be so tired but he was the only thing that made me not hate living here. It's been almost 3 months. I miss him. Now I'm sad all the time and so so lonely. I try to call friends and family but I can't shake the feeling. Dont have time to go out on the weekends have to study all day. :(

[HawkPerception]

Easiest way is to socialize and have fun. Go to bars, approach people and ask them if you can join in their conversations or activities (if they're playing darts or pool), or just go places to socialize in general. You need to put yourself out there. You can't just sit in your room, scrolling on your phone endlessly and hope people come to you.

[teamvic]

Well simply you have to change your schedule

You can't keep doing the same thing and expect a different result.

It doesn't sound like you're alone, friends wise but rather significant other wise

Also why does the guy have to be the same race🤔

[Asker]

yeah def SO wise. doesn't have to be same race but religion is importnat to me and most importantly is important to my parents

[Asker]

how do I change my schedule? I need to study to pass the tests to move on to the next thing.

[teamvic]

Honestly perhaps you might have to try online again until you're done with school or at least till you have time to meet guys

at least online you have more choices faster and you can just text

[Asker]

thats true ur right

[Anonymous]

Go find a guy at a gym

[jahaims]

Make friends

[Asker]

how? i have to study all day to pass my tests and I keep moving around to diff small cities im never in one place.