Should women stop caring about height in a man?

[Anonymous]

Yes they should stop caring about height in a man

No they should not stop caring about height in a man

[sage2021]

This has gotten way out of hand and it's all because of social media and it's criteria they put out of what women should want in a guy. Sorry ladies, but there just aren't that many guy's that are 6'2" out there to please all of you and filling your expectations.

Why don't you just have blueprints made up of everything you have to have in a guy and when you meet one, just pull out your blueprint, have him look at it and cut to the chase fast!!!
I am sure he will have to be as smart as Einstein and won't have any problems reading your blueprint.

Or, you could just get a 3D replica of your ideal man and carry it around with you everywhere until you see a guy that is the perfect image of your 3D model.

You need props man, cause you can't get the perfect guy just being you cause you are too much and selfish!

[DarkLegacy]

Very well said

[Anonymous]

Sure, as soon as you all stop caring about our weight, our hair color, our eye color, the size of our breasts, the size of our butt, etc etc. Sucks you're short.

[Asker]

yeah it sure sucks

[SotiCoto]

The age when men have to stand up to peer across the grass of the savannah to look for prey are long past. What few advantages height might still confer are not gender-specific.

[msc545]

All of the things you mentioned can be changed by you. Height cannot be.

[DarkLegacy]

Don't you think opinion owner that it is time you grew up and acted your age

[Kiss_Me]

Tall men have what has been termed, "The Halo Effect." It is the perception that taller men are more masculine, smarter, better leaders, and better in bed. Reality has shown this to be wildly inaccurate, but the perception remains.
Should women stop caring about a man's height? Yes. However, attraction in woman is virtually uncontrollable, and they cannot help who they are attracted to. If a man possesses certain attributes, a woman's attraction "volume know" is increased. Height is one of them.

[Nirmroth]

Just date what you find attractive if you find tall women/men attractive then by all means go for it.

[LostSouls_]

I’ve always struggled to understand the whole height obsession. Like is ones height really that big of a deal 🤷🏼‍♀️

[BarryLiverstone]

The height thing is an excuse for shorter guys to think girls are not coming up to them because they are not the tallest. It’s an insecurity.

[Asker]

@BarryLiverstone is it though?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes it is. It’s an excuse.

[Asker]

@BarryLiverstone what would be at stake in such cases to prove it is an excuse?

[BarryLiverstone]

The truth

[Asker]

@BarryLiverstone the truth isn't a stake

[BarryLiverstone]

If we give up on the truth, why are we still living? Tell me what else you stake living on

[LostSouls_]

Aww look at you two. So passionate

[Asker]

@BarryLiverstone how is the truth a stake in such a scenario?

[nik0102]

When everyone has the same preference, it no longer is a preference but a stereotype.

Height is a subconscious way a man seems dominant, and is rooted in patriarchy.

It makes no sense to complain about other aspects of patriarchy, but only date 6 ft guys and call it a preference. Basically you can't have your cake and eat it too

[CrabCakes11]

I don’t have a height preference as long as he isn’t over 5’11, and I don’t think women who care about it should stop having a preference for tall men just so short guys with nothing to offer can feel like they’d have a chance.

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 nothing to offer? That’s fucked up

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 You can simply choose to have something to offer. Bitching and moaning about how women don’t like you because you’re short is a worthless trait in a partner. Just improve yourself and you’ll find a girlfriend

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 Maybe for an average Joe Schmo…but a bald dwarf with a micropenis and autism can’t simply “improve” and magically get a girlfriend. Practically all women would find them undateable for the micropenis alone, let alone being a dwarf with autism.

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 as of most men wouldn’t date a female bald dwarf with autism. The micropenis is less of an issue than you think. If you’re good enough with your mouth it won’t matter. Most women can’t orgasm from penetration

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 sure it’d almost suck equally as much whether they were female or male, but you still haven’t disproven my point that if you get fucked genetically, no amount of improvement will land you a date with a model unless you get super lucky and become a celeb.

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 Being a shorter than average man is way different than being a disabled person. There are so many short men in relationships. My boyfriend is 5’5. Don’t compare being short, which is not a disability, to actual problems such as mental illness or disabilities. Why do you have to date a model? Why do you expect people to lower their standards when you won’t lower yours?

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 dwarfism is considered a disability you do realize? Technically, so is autism. So a bald dwarf with autism and a micropenis would TECHNICALLY be disabled…

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 exactly. Being a bald dwarf is a disability. Being 5’7 is not

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 ok fine what about a 4’11” bald guy with a 3.5 in penis and is ugly? No disabilities…still gonna be obscenely difficult to get a girlfriend who isn’t morbidly obese…

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 The height isn’t really the main issue in this situation. It’s being ugly

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 I don't know about that…I think a 6’7” ugly guy would get laid way faster than a 4’11” handsome guy…

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 That’s not true. But you can have your little pity party go ahead. It won’t make you more attractive to women

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 maybe you and I have different standards for handsomeness. To me a guy isn’t good looking unless women hit on them constantly solely because of how their face looks…and ugliness is where women never approach you, and you feel invisible to women…so average would be somewhere in between where you get hit on occasionally. Since I never get approached by women…I’d say I’m in the ugly camp, but I’m also short which makes it twice as bad…not throwing a pity party, that’s just the reality. A pity party would be like I should end myself because life isn’t worth living if I can’t any female interest…I don’t care enough about dating to do that…

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 attractive people sometimes dont get hit on, especially if they are men since they are expected to make the first more. There’s always ways to become more attractive. I’ve seen some ugly men have hot girlfriends because they’re funny

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 you forget I’m neurodivergent…I can never become charismatic. And I don’t and might not ever have the money to get a bunch of cosmetic surgery…so I likely have to just accept that I’ll never be conventionally attractive like Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth and give up on trying to date, just celibacy is a hard pill to swallow.

[CrabCakes11]

@JHAYES317 I’m neurodivergent and I’m very popular and well liked. A limiting attitude makes you more unattractive than neurodivergence. Not every woman is looking for Henry Cavill. There are plenty of normal women looking for a normal man

[JHAYES317]

@crabcakes11 yes but I’m not interested in being a normal man. I grew up as a child music prodigy…I got used to being praised and had a certain degree of local celebrity. So being an average Joe is not palatable to me…if I can’t be special again then I’ll probably end up becoming a monk at some point…

[RebelinSteel]

No one in the real world cares about height, hair colour, eye colour etc.

they are happy to date someone they are compatible with.

[DishLady]

Should men stop considering how women look?

[Asker]

that can be the next question

[JHAYES317]

@DishLady they don’t usually unless they are fat. But women can lose weight so that’s totally fair 99% of the time

[DarkOsiris]

I'm sorry bro but they're gonna have their preferences; but so do we, choose a chick whose love isn't based on whether you won the genetic lottery. They're probably not a good match for the long term anyway as physical beauty and even height fade.

[SotiCoto]

I figure everyone needs a height limit, but I don't reckon it should be set by one's own height. It is downright unfair if all the tallest women are insisting on even taller men.

[IslaTheWitch]

most women don't care... just look at different couples...

[JHAYES317]

@islathewitch false. Go on a dating app as a 6 ft guy you’ll get way more matches than a 5 ft guy

[EmmaMary]

Should guys stop caring about the size of their genitals.

[msc545]

They should not but will not since women make such an issue of it.

[Siri137]

Exactly! No more dick questions please :)

[thisAppIsGarbage]

I'm a short man and I say fuck no. Because I would never date a fat woman. People have preferences. There are almost 8 billion people. It's almost impossible not to find someone that wants to fuck you.

[Siri137]

I don't think I ever did care. Well, if not unless he was a midget.

[JHAYES317]

@siri137 midgets are humans too…so then you do care…now for me I’m not attracted to midgets but it’s not the height…it’s the proportions than turn me off personally.

[Berethor]

They should not, tallness is a masculine trait, so why they should date a short male? :)

[CrabCakes11]

Because they’re mlre attractive. I don’t date tall men. Ick

[msc545]

@CrabCakes11 Stop lying.

[CrabCakes11]

@msc545 Lol how is not wanting to date a Goliath somehow so controversial that it’s a lie. It’s simple. Tall men look like lumbering beasts and I don’t want to deal with a man a foot taller than me and 150 pounds heavier

[Berethor]

Feminist is threatened by a real man, funny, men are 5 inches taller than on average.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kplUD8_zIsk

[bobby_bush_eater]

Preferences are preferences. I'm 5'7 and I don't care if a woman prefers tall guys, I have my preferences too

[Dezmo08]

If a woman cares about height she’ll lose the dating game. If she doesn’t care about height, she’ll have a better chance to win the dating game. Whether she should or shouldn’t isn’t really my business. Women can do whatever they want

[Anonymous]

Should men stop caring about breast size or an attractive face?

[Opinion Owner]

Haven't you been arrested yet?

[LiamJHayden]

People should have their preferences and feel no need to explain them.

[BarryLiverstone]

No, women have a need to value a man taller than they are. Makes them feel protected and safe

[CrabCakes11]

Or maybe we could just stop making women feel unsafe instead of making them all find tall boyfriends

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s a better solution. How does that happen?

[Anonymous]

Congratulations for winning the dumbest question of the year award.

[Asker]

thank you

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Pohjolan]

Might as well ask men to stop caring about women being fat.

[Anonymous]

No, they should just change it from a tall preference to a short preference. As short people make better astronauts.

[mandyfire98]

Should men or women care about any preferences?

[JHAYES317]

Maybe they should but they won’t.

[msc545]

They should but they won't.

[msc545]

What they WILL DO is LIE about it in response to this question.