I feel like I am dying.. why would he did that?

[Anonymous]

He cheated on me with another girl after 6 years between us and we were engaged

He was in another country for work

Then he came and confessed to me his betrayal and begged me to stay with him. He said a lot of things about that girl

He told me that she was bad and not suitable for him and did not look like him

And I trust him because he wants to fix the relationship between us

Then he traveled to that country and I decided to give him a new chance

After a whole year had passed

A fake account sent me a group of pictures of him with that girl. He never left her and he goes with her on vacations to several countries. They look happy together.

I confronted him about it and sent him pictures

He told me that he knows that she is not suitable for him and does not resemble him, but he loves her

Something made him not leave me at all, so he stayed with me as well

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh my god Sis, I'm so so sorry this happened to you. I can't believe he lied to your face for a whole year after cheating! What a complete jerk.

You don't deserve to be anyone's second choice. It's clear he was just using you as a backup plan while having his fun with that other girl. You put your heart on the line again by giving him another chance, and this is how he repays your trust? No way.

Please don't waste another second thinking about this loser. I know it hurts so much to be betrayed like that, especially after so long together. But you are an amazing, beautiful person who deserves someone who will treat you like a priority, not an option.

It's time to cut him out of your life for good. Block him everywhere so he can't suck you back in with more lies. Spend time with your girls who really care about you. And when you're ready, I know there's a guy out there who will appreciate your heart in the right way. You've got this sis - his pathetic actions say it all about him, not you. Keep your head high!

[edmwarrior]

You must move on. Ask me how I know.

The quicker you begin healing, the quicker you can live your life

[Asker]

How?

[edmwarrior]

Stop replying to his texts. Don’t give in. Do things you’ve always wanted to do, whether that’s hanging out with your girls, skydiving, or traveling. Once you distract yourself, which is only a cope, time will fly by and before you know it, he will be a vague memory. That’s what I did when my ex of 10 years cheated on me with a coworker.

[DishLady]

I don't know why you didn’t understand that he was just feeding you a line — cheaters cheat. That’s what they do. Don’t tolerate it….

[avery58]

Because he's a bitch.

Don't care about him, leave him to his stupid choices. Just move on and don't take him back.

[avery58]

I know it's hard right now but with time you'll heal, just be patient

[Nikki1989]

He is a man, live and learn. It probably WILL happen again.

[scott04sa22]

You're not the only one I've been cheated on too.