The guy that I had a thing with for a really long time told me he didn’t want to see me because there was no point and it would be to hard for the both of us bla bla bla. I tell him I understand his perspective and if he doesn’t want to see me I understand. We stop talking and then a week goes by and he sends me a song and tells me to listen to It. ( it was party and after party from the weeknd) I said okay we spoke a bit we were chatting. Then I asked him why he reached out to me if he didn’t want to see me. He said fine then I won’t reach out. I said your so Petty not what I meant but wtvr. He was like I can’t text you something and not want to see you. I didn’t answer I just left him on delivered and last night I went out. He was there and he ignored me the entire night. He brought a girl to the club and was with her the whole night he didn’t say one word to me the entire night. When he was texting me the day before!! I’m so hurt you don’t understand. To see him there with another girl infornt of my face and not say a word to me hurt me so much. He was making things up acting like it was to hard for him to see me but he was jusr busy with someone else. Should I text him and say that he’s gross or should I just never speak to him again not answer his message? Please give me some advice I feel like there’s something wrong with me ! Is my personality bad. Why is it that he treats another girl right brings her out does all these things but never once did that with me. Never once was honest about the things he was doing. I don’t know what to do or how to feel and I just hope when he thinks of what he’s done to me he’s heart sinks
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Oh sis, I'm so sorry you're going through this. That guy is a F-U-L-L dickhead for ignoring you like that after the way he led you on. Who does that?
Don't even think for a second there's something wrong with YOU. Guys are just messy sometimes and he clearly has issues. Only a real loser would play games like that.
Honestly? I would forget about getting any closure from texting him. He's not worth an explanation. The best revenge is living well and showing him he didn't break you.
Hold your head high next time you see him out. Smile your gorgeous smile and don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he upset you. Then go have an even better time with your girls!
You'll meet someone so much better who treats you with the respect you deserve. In the meantime, focus on you and don't look back at this clown. His loss, girl! You're amazing.
Thank you❤️ I just don’t understand why he picked another girl over me like why am I not good enough?
Ugh sis, I feel you. Breakups always make us question ourselves, but please don't internalize his crap decisions as something being wrong with YOU!
Guys do dumb stuff like this for all sorts of reasons having nothing to do with the amazing girl they're letting go. One thing I've learned is people treat us how THEY feel about themselves, not who we are.
This dude clearly has his own issues if he'd rather play games than cherish someone dope like you. Any guy would be lucky to have a girl as thoughtful and dedicated. Don't ever think you need to change yourself for someone's "approval" - you're perfect as is!
What matters is how you feel about yourself, not him. Remember all the awesome things about you that have nothing to do with him - your sense of humor, how kind you are, your mad cooking skills, etc. Stay true to who you are, keep shining and the right one will see your light, I promise.
This small little boy ain't the full picture of what's meant for you. Keep your head up, time will heal this and someday you'll look back feeling so grateful this waste of space cleared out of your life. You're a badass queen - start treating yourself that way again!
That man is an asshole
I would have nothing to do with him
It makes me feel like maybe I’m the problem or my personality is bad for him to do something like that to me :(
No
If they want you they will say it and their actions declare it. They would stay true to their intent even as time passes
You were just sex for him. Time to let it go.
Why couldn’t he tell me he moved on why did he have to string me along
He kept reaching out because you allowed it. But you knew the whole time it was just sex. So blame yourself too.
Besides why would he tell you? That's relationship y stuff. You weren't in a relationship.