Why is he doing this to me?

[monsoonlove]

This boy gives me death stare whenever I am alone. He knows I get irritated easily. Whenever I am around people he won't look at me but tries to be around me as much as possible. Appears in front of my eyes. We both follow each other on social media. He would flirt with my friend a lot. I know this guy from childhood. He was very sweet and kind to me. But now he behaves like a creep. Only with me. I invited him to my restaurant he just said thank you so much 😉. I try to text him he replies after hours. Whenever I am alone he looks at me like he hates me. I feel so bad. Sometimes I cry. When I say hi he says hi back. But he never initiates a convo. Why does he dislike me so much. He stares at me from distance. Sad eyes. I removed him from my social media. He sent me req again but I removed him again. He knew about me liking him. His friends would tease him around me.
Its not like he is a shy guy. He has dated my classmates. He just get girls very easily. He is always dating someone or the other. Even If I avoid him so much it still irks me.

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We used to flirt with each other a lot. Then I suddenly stopped.

[oh_k789]

" He just get girls very easily"
Of course that makes him irresistible to you, along with him being a capable "love tactician", and paying attention yet not paying attention to you. It would seem you aren't his elected queen, while of course he enjoys knowing many girls would like to be her, and that's, probably, all about you and him.

[monsoonlove]

Can you please elaborate the last line

[oh_k789]

What part?

[monsoonlove]

Last sentence

[monsoonlove]

Just because I am not paying attention to him him knowing I like him does that make me different from other girls?

[oh_k789]

I would focus on: Why did you remove him from your social media, since you are into him?

[monsoonlove]

I dont know. Do you think he might have taken this seriously?

[oh_k789]

There's also a small chance he has developed intense feelings about you. The kind that hurts, and that one tries to hide.
That could be behind the detached behaviours, and intent stares you interpret as negative stares.

[monsoonlove]

Hmm I see

[oh_k789]

Well

[Anonymous]

I think he wants to be with you.

But maybe you are right about the death stares and he is a crazy person or something, its a little bit hard to know without actually seeing what you are seeing.

Regarding being shy: Its easy to ask someone out when you dont care about the outcome.

[oh_k789]

"Regarding being shy: Its easy to ask someone out when you dont care about the outcome."

Ah yes, that's for sure.
People (or maybe women only? Who knows) seem blind to the reality that the more you care, the more likely you are going to appear awkward, or even "creepy", to their eyes, and that, of course, is as much true as little they are about you.

[Opinion Owner]

@oh_k789 Exactly.

[monsoonlove]

But he is cold towards me as you read in my situation

[monsoonlove]

How is that he wants me.

[monsoonlove]

Earlier he would wink at me, smirk etc now he is doing all this when I've been ignoring him.

[Opinion Owner]

In what sense is he being cold?

You are the one who blocked him.

[monsoonlove]

I blocked him because he tried to make me jealous with my friend. He would always stare at me. Sometimes look at me up and down and smirk like a pervert.

[Klinklins]

He's fantasizing about you

[monsoonlove]

What makes you think that

[Klinklins]

Just kidding. But not kidding.
If he likes you he might have initiated conversation

[monsoonlove]

Just kidding but not kidding. You are confusing me here

[Klinklins]

Lol why don't you ask him what

[Iron_Man]

He doesn’t like you