Why is it hard to find women to date who are pale and aren't into the tanning scene?

[paledreams]

Surely it's not just me who can't find a woman who, above all else ticking all my boxes: is pale skinned and proud of it 🥲 🦚

[Iron_Man]

There’s a lot of pale girls out there. Why would you have a problem finding one?

[paledreams]

The pale women I've seen on dating apps and in real life have often later on 'discovered tanning/spray tans/solariums" and on that day or on that moment instant turn off. Lol 😆😆😆 and never again a turn on. And then my eyes wander, next taxi off the rank lol, next taxi please lol 🚕 🚖

[paledreams]

Or 'swipe for the fourth photo, bam there's a tanned version of them or at the beach tanned or a tanned dance photo/formal photo/prom photo and instant turn Off lol to me 😆 next 😞😆😭 😆

[Iron_Man]

Keep looking it shouldn’t be that hard tanning ages your skin drys you out makes you old faster

[paledreams]

Too many women have bought into what their friends say or why the make up industry says' tan tan tan or fake tan. Lol. I love pale like my own complexion. I don't do, tan. I do get vitamin D. But I don't do tanning or long times at a beach. Barely 5 mins max lol 😆

[Iron_Man]

I like pale

[paledreams]

I like pale, women 😍 lol ♀️👠

[In_Trance]

It's just you

[paledreams]

It's definitely just me 😂 I'll be right ▶️

[HelpfulWoman]

it isn't that hard. at least in the uk, there's loads of people

[Abbycado]

Didn’t realize there is a tanning “scene”. XD

[paledreams]

Think of it like trends or think of it like "the in thing" comes out of style goes back in style, 😄

[normalice]

East coast people tend to be less interested in tanning than west coast.