How do I start seeing myself as an attractive person?

[Anonymous]

I'm 21, never had a girlfriend, tall (6'2) and fit (i like taking care of my body). Unluckily for me, i'm balding pretty bad (i'm taking meds for it, they're not working that much). At least i know i've got the ideal skull shape for it (i've already shaved my head).

I'd prefer to keep this as superficial as possible, cause i don't see myself as an attractive dude physically. I know i can engage a good conversation and be friendly cause i've got many friends (both guys and girls).

Please help me! What's worked for you?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here are some tips bro:

- Hit the gym regularly if you don't already. Building some muscle will make you look and feel way more confident shirtless or with your top off.

- Dress sharper. I'm talking well-fitting jeans, sneakers that match your style, trendy button downs or polos. Make an effort with your appearance.

- Keep your hygiene on point. Shower daily, use good deodorant and cologne, stay fresh as heck. No girl wants to cuff a dude who don't care about his smell game.

- Stand up straight with your shoulders back. Own your height, man! Carry yourself like you know you're a total catch.

- Smile more, even if you're not feeling it at first. Your vibe and energy will attract people to you.

- Compliment your bros genuinely. Spreading the love will make people want to boost you up too.

- Try not to fret too much about the balding. Girls dig confidence way more than hair. Rock the bald cut with swagger!

- Believe you're worthy of love and attraction. The rest will follow, I promise bro. You've got way more to offer than just looks. Your time is coming, I can feel it!

[Billlewis]

Practice talking to yourself in the mirror until you develop more confidence.

[Anonymous]

Height is what most matters to women