Are there subtle signals that a girl likes me/finds me attractive?

[Awesomesauce2005]

I have never had feelings reciprocated, probably due to the fact every girl i have asked out talked to me for a week and ghosted me the day of the scheduled date.

Yeah

Hell naw

Im a playa who tf cares?

[Crimsyjo]

I'm not sure cos different girls play by different rules. But if I like you I will be eager to communicate. Every day, or everytime you do. And I'll reach out. And hell I might even just say so.

But then... I'm not one to play games.

If it was say in a work setting and I can't be so forward or I'm a little uncertain of the guys thoughts about me, then subtle signs wd be attention. Eye contact. Making effort to chat way past just normal "sign here. Thanks" work stuff lol. I'd maybe make a flirty remark. But not unless guy did first.

[Awesomesauce2005]

Im a guy and id do exactly the same thing lol

[Crimsyjo]

Haha well that's good. And I'd say natural behaviour. It's just all this bull out there about "don't message a guy quickly" "don't seem to keen" "ignore a girl to drive her crazy for u" ... has confused all the signals. Oh and of course the other way. The con men and women who fake attraction to manipulate.

[Awesomesauce2005]

What personality type do you have? Im an ENTP

[Crimsyjo]

I think i am INJP last time I tested?

[Awesomesauce2005]

You mean INFP? There is no INJP

[Crimsyjo]

I'll have to find out. I don't take much notice of it. Defo got a J in it tho... and the IN at start!

[Horse-girl]

There are signals, they can be more obvious or subtle depending on how confident/shy she is. Look for a smile when you make eye contact or her 'coincidently' being in the same place as you often (if you keep bumping into her out and about there's a good chance it's not a coincidence), if you have a conversation with her she doesn't seem to be trying to find a way out of it. Eye contact and body language is also a good indicator but overall it can be difficult to tell without just going for it. Good luck with it, I'm sure you'll find the one!

[Awesomesauce2005]

Thanks!

[Horse-girl]

You're welcome 😊

[NathanDavis]

I do it the other way around...

I first make sure they like me first, and then... I ask them out

[Awesomesauce2005]

How do you find that out? That seems like a way better way to do it.

[NathanDavis]

well, I do make the time to get to know her and for her to get to know me as well... and then we end up liking each other, or not...

[Billlewis]

"Trust your gut and unless she's a slut, call her up and ask her what '

[Awesomesauce2005]

Hmmmmm 🤔