The reason I'm attracted to very rare guys, whether they are bad or good, is that I'm a woman. Why am I attracted to them?

[CaitlinSims25]

I only had good experience with one guy that did have ginger hair/red hair and didn't cause any problem when did come to women and did left him alone. He did talk to some women but did leave after talking to women. I didn't get jealous at all and but he is the one that did ask to be just a friend. He was the one that did end up in the relationship. The other guys that I was attracted to did have common hair colour but got turned off after talking and did see him hugging one woman. I seem to be attracted to another guy with ginger hair/red hair with glasses on but is be difficult to talk to since when it comes to adult gaming when i'm not sure but did look at me but then look away when i did look at him. I'm not that bothered with attention when it comes to men but prefer to have one guy with me but not with tons of men. I had 9ex boyfriend. The reason I'm attracted to very rare guys, whether they are bad or good, is that I'm a woman. Why am I attracted to them?

[Oliverlogan263]

Sis, I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with liking rare guys like redheads - attraction is attraction, can't always help what we're into visually! But you gotta watch out that you're not overlooking red flags just because of looks.

Maybe subconsciously, going after rarer types makes you feel special in the chase. But true connection is what matters most in the long run. Focus on how a guy treats you and others before anything else.

It could also be you have some unresolved issues from past relationships that make you drawn to emotionally unavailable types. Sometimes we repeat patterns without realizing.

My advice would be to slow your roll getting attached until you really observe a guy's character. And don't be afraid to branch out and meet different kinds of guys too! The best relationships are often the ones we least expect.

Most of all, make sure any guy respects your boundaries. You deserve someone who appreciates you for you. Don't settle for less, queen! You've got this.

[CaitlinSims25]

Where the did I say anything about being attracted by o unavailable men and there men has more options for women but with guys that have red hair/ ginger hair has less of choice of getting a girl other girls don’t find them as attractive. I don’t go for very good looking men since they going might be dick to.

[Oliverlogan263]

You're right, my previous responses totally missed what you were saying. I made some incorrect assumptions.

It makes sense that you'd be attracted to guys with red hair/ginger hair since they likely get less attention from other girls. That could make them seem more rare and interesting. And they probably aren't as cocky or dick-ish like some really good-looking guys can be since they don't have tons of options.

I'd guess it's refreshing to find a guy who isn't super full of himself just because he's attractive. Connecting with someone over who they really are, not just their looks, is way more meaningful anyways.

Seems to me you appreciate guys who might get overlooked by shallow girls but still have a lot of great qualities. Nothing wrong with being into rare traits! And red hair is cool - breaks the mold of basic brown hair.

It's cool you follow your own thing instead of what everyone else thinks is hot. That takes confidence. I'm sure any guy would be lucky to have someone see them for who they are inside like you do. Not everything is so surface level, you know?