Do men prefer blondes and brunettes over black women? How do black women compare to blonde or brunette women and which do you prefer?

[Anonymous]

I notice when the debate comes to blondes vs brunettes it does not include black women so I wanted to see where we fall. How do black women compare to blonde women in getting dates, attractiveness to men, strikingness etc. How does a fair skinned, non black, or white brunette compare to a black women?

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A total of 29 votes were cast: 8 girls and 21 guys. See detailed results

[Ευδεμονια]

I can speak for my personal opinion, that’s not the one of all men, since everyone has its own opinion and tastes.
I’m white, I tend to like more white girls and I would like to have a white girlfriend, not a black or Asian one.
So my personal preference goes to white girls, in particular brunette ones, that are the majority ones of my country.


Given that, if I have to valuate the general beauty, obviously there’s also ugly brunette and splendid black women, but general beauty, in my opinion, doesn’t regard the skin colour.

[Avicenna]

We date individuals, not a race. Beauty standards vary, values vary, etc. Most people prefer dating within their own race. Those are all factors.

[Anonymous]

Kinky or straight, relaxed or natural, braids or sew ins, that’s where we fall in discussions about our hair and that should be ok in your world. You’re not going to fall into a conversation regarding a blonde or brunette woman because you aren’t white and this is clearly the topic of discussion once “blonde” is presented.

[Asker]

I disagree there are blonde and brunette Asians and latinas. There are brunette middle eastern women and south Asian women. Blonde and brunette has less to do with white and more to do with not black or not darker skinned (mostly because blonde and brown hair isn’t a common color we even dye or hair and no one outside of on own culture seems to recognize wigs as hair we have bought thus making it belong to us.) I’m not saying this to allude racism as much as I just want to know where to stand to some of men when it comes to dating where the question doesn’t typically include us. It’s not a serious question as much as it’s a simple poll and thought no reason to have a be “ok” with not falling into a discussion because there i’ll never be a discussion. Men don’t event know enough about black hair or tend to be interested enough in black owned to answer a question like you suggested. It’s not about black women in comparison to other black women I’m talking about black women in the dating market as a whole

[Asker]

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[Opinion Owner]

So if you overhear two people having a discussion about blonde vs brunette women, you’re going to think the person in question is Asian or middle eastern? Probably not. Yes, of course natural blonde hair exists in the black community but it is a rarity outside of being biracial. So in most cases, a black woman won’t come to mind for the average person when discussing natural blondes.

Your question, to me, does not present as an open inquiry about black women on the dating market. You specifically mention this comparison between white and black women: “how do black women compare to blonde women in getting dates, attractiveness to men, strikingness”, which sounds like the topic is most focused on.

[7Phoenix7]

I'd take a blonde woman, and brunette, and a black woman. We'd all have a good time.

[AviatorTom]

Most black women have dark hair, like brunettes, so they are included when we guys say we prefer brunettes.

[meepmeeperton]

A lot of black women wear blonde wigs or dye their hair blonde too, so... the question doesn't really make sense.

[Rangers]

Generally, I find brunettes more attractive, but stop giving a damn.

Just take the card you have, and you'll be beautiful regardless. Stop giving a damn about blonde vs brunette. That's the last thing I'm going to consider when getting to know a potential mate, and it'll comprise >.0000001% of my decision as to whether to advance our connection, or leave it

[RebelinSteel]

Skin colour, hair colour, eye colour, really don’t play a big part in being interested in a girl , then with the dating side it does not matter.

[Part2603]

Who do you like better, girls with blonde hair, girls with brunette hair, or girls with no hair?

[Asker]

Black women can have natural long hair? Black hair comes in all textures some with looser curls some with kinkier curls

[HawkPerception]

Everyone has their own preferences. You'll find guys that are into black girls and guys that aren't.

[Pterodon]

I don't know how to answer this. One of my best friends is a black woman that I find very attractive but on a white woman I prefer brunettes. Would I chose a brunette over a black woman? No it’d depend on the woman

[meepmeeperton]

Uh, well I like black hair but not black women. Straight black hair that Asian women have.

[Makeushiver]

There is no particular combination that is more attractive than another. Beauty comes in every color, every race, every religion

[TommyMountainFigure]

The colour of a woman's skin doesn't matter to me. It's the chemistry which matters most.

[SotiCoto]

Between melanites and my two least favourite hair colours... I'd have to go with the melanites.

[Anonymous]

I am attracted to Caucasian, Hispanic, Oriental, and American Indian women, but I am not attracted to black women.

[LiamJHayden]

I do not care about her hair, eye, or skin color.

[mayurr]

I prefer dark brown🖤