The classic "The Layover" movie with Alexandra and Kate. Have you ever fought with a friend over someone you HAD to be with, but they also wanted them to? Did you still end up friends? Or? What happened?
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God, i hope I'm not on here with hermits. If you have friends, I'm sure you've at least disputed over a chase? I know I have! Some are still friends, some not so much! I'll tell my story on the 2nd update, if we can get real here.
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So I had a college roommate. We did everything together! Literally to even crushing on the same guy. We had both an intimate friendship and a guy in the mix. It came down to who could get with him first. The chase became so stupid, after many arguments and sabotaging, he ended up getting with our friend we never expected to be a threat.
Have you ever fought with a good friend over a man or woman?
No, I have had friends who we liked the same guy but we both wouldn't go for him or I would tell them to go for it, since I knew I was never gonna make a move anyways. Also the "friends" who did go deliberately for the guys I liked or flirted with them, we usually drifted or I ditched them pretty quick because those ones are just assholes and not someone worth keeping around. They tend to be the type that are always trying to hurt you or they keep you around because they think you are less than them so they will always try to hurt you to feel better about themselves.
One "friend" I had like that who kept hurting me, I become friends with this Preppy hot guy she was "In love with" and we would talk on the phone and MSN chat. We would talk shit about her all the time, so I knew he was never gonna like her and she didn't know I was friends with him since we kept it secret from everyone (we would always smile or stick our tongues out at each other secretly at school, it was funny). Thinking back it was actually really evil because he was messing around with her like he liked her and I was pretending to be her friend lmao.
No. But my bestie and another friend at one time liked the same guy. My bestie's mom told her that she couldn't date him because of the fact they both liked the same guy.
I'm a Hermit but yes. We met once on the rare occasion of me going out, invited to chill at the park with my friends and my friend who is a clone of me had a new girlfriend. But right away we hit it off which is not really a shock since she is with just a clone of me lol. She's acting flirty to me and on that very day asked to come back to mine so I said why not. Her boyfriend was coming to. We all were playing games and having fun then he needed to get home, while she didn't as she lives by herself anyway but his parents nag him to return for dinner etc. So then she decides to stay because it's hassle going home by herself. Then we stay up all night watching things and cuddling. Safe to say I wanted her.
A lot of stuff happened for the next weeks her chosing to spend time with me over him but he was also been a jerk for unfathomable reasons. But tbf he's always been like the one difference between me and him the only difference really is he really shows a lack of care to everything. While I show a lack of care to most things but certainly not someone I like. One could for say I over-stepped my bounds at times but it was nothing compared to how he was, a very good example is a night in which she attempted ya know and I had to take her to hospital while his response was 'Why should I come?'
So to me this was the example of a girl picking the bad guy over the good guy. In the end more drama came, and she decided to lie about something to me well more importantly about me to my mother. So I cut ties with her right away after all this she still rejected me and decides to stab me in the back so I was out. Told her my friend will leave her just you watch while I never would of. And a couple months later he did and the reason he said she was getting fat.
Me and him are still friends cause in reality he never cared anyway about the whole ordeal, and we still have a lot in common but if a girl ever asked me is he a good man to date my answer would be a hard no. If she's dumb enough to not listen then it is what it is.
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I once had a coworker who got real close with me fast. He called me brother within a few months. A couple years into the friendship, he messaged my wife at the time. I cut him off after that and never spoke to him again. They still have each other as friends even after we divorced though, although she never replies to him or even likes his posts. I’m still somewhat friends with my ex wife.
At a different workplace, I had a female coworker and a male coworker who worked closely with me. One day I asked the woman if her eyes were hazel. She said yes with a smile. He began acting very strange after that. He vandalized my stuff, made comments about her to me, and sabotaged my work. He later got fired for it.
I have plenty more stories. I’m a guy who doesn’t flirt or have charisma, but women always seem to flirt with me first. I’m not sure why. I’m not that good looking. Maybe it’s because I’m a clean freak (shaving, haircuts) who likes to dress nice.
Not verbally or physically, but sort of. The guy was interested in me and I tried to direct him toward someone I knew liked him. It didn't work, and I learned a good lesson about trying to control how other people feel (i. e. Just. Don't.).
Why do you think we're lying when we say we don't? I just don't have the same type as my friends. Mostly because I've had the same boyfriend for 3 years
there was this one time though, back in middle-school... me and my best friend had a crush on the same girl, and we both decided "none of us will go and get her"
the funny part was that... she didn't even care about us like that lmfao... (unlikely that she did, lol)
I had a disagreement with a friend once. I didn't like the girl he did but she would talk to me and other guys online... The days of chat rooms. I didn't realise he was trying to meet with her. She was rude and my friends and I tried to warn him about her but I believe she stood him up. We were never the same after.
Years have passed and drifted apart. I don't think it was really about her, I think it's just how life is.
Not sure if counts as fighting but did get lot of drama with one woman and was throughout college and some women did use my trust to temp some previous ex to cheat and some of the women were successful and didn’t wan to date again in college.
@GeminiDiamond. I have never seen it at least.. ever. So there's is one scenario where I could see it happening is if a guy is moving in on another guy's girlfriend, that would provoke a response. Usually though one will respectfully back off.
@GeminiDiamond I have never seen this scenario come up in my entire life. It makes me wonder if it was more of a thing from a bygone era, a few decades ago in small towns maybe?
There is no response provoked to encourage the other, if it happens at the same time, initially of the opposite born gender. At that point, it becomes misogyny, I suppose. Oh, how we love those guys, who disdain us, who sort of relate with a surgical copy of a vagina. Should I press enter?
The fuck, all teenagers do this to some degree at some point. Even if it's less than total of 5 minutes in your entire life, you still had moments where the reptile brain inside your goat head took over, or you started thinking using your dick, and said something awful about your rival. That's when "bros before hoes" agreements are made once you realize how retarded it is to lose potentially good friends over pussy.
@derepit_discoverer yep is can happen for people that have learning disability to and did happened to me a couple time when did date and relationship within college and didn’t wan to have anymore relationships within college but prefer to meet people away from my town. Since is can be drama when to dating.
Can you unblock me? What I said was a joke and I was just trying to make you laugh. Nothing else. I know you are married. I just want things to be good between us.
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