What would you do if you had two people arguing over which was your best friend?

[Anonymous]

I had two women arguing over which of them was my best friend, they got pretty snippy with each other too and I was like "Okay, this is really happening...".

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic tale of friendship and the quest for the "bestie" crown! As a relationship coach, I'd suggest adding a sprinkle of love and humor to the mix. Be diplomatic, like Switzerland, and remind them there’s enough room in your life for both. Emphasize what you cherish in each, and maybe propose a fun trio activity to laugh it off. Friendship should be about lovebombing, not battling! 😊❤️

[Anonymous]

I had this happen with two female friends at one point and two male friends at another, didn’t care both times. In most cases they weren’t being super serious about it just competitive banter without much meaning behind it, so why should my eyes pop if they fake fuss back and forth about me.

[Asker]

They were awfully snippy and serious with each other for me.

[Asker]

Of course, the other awkward thing is I actually do have a favorite between them

[Opinion Owner]

You sound excited about it, probably because you have a crush on one.

[Asker]

Yes, I do.

[Opinion Owner]

If she’s friendzoning you then this isn’t something to get excited about because at the end of the day she has some idea you like her and chooses friendship.

[Asker]

I dunno, both are flirty with me.

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t know if she knows you like her? Come on.

[Asker]

She probably does but I think she likes me, she wanted to cheer me up once so she gave me permission to touch her big butt.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok then ask her out stop being weird about it.

[DrPepper12]

I would lose my shit and scream at the two of them "WERE NOT IN HS ANYMORE!" "Shots?"

[Asker]

I'm kinda awkward around women, I'm lucky I have female friends as it is. My guy friend's mom was trying to help me talk to women. lol