Why is she even hitting me up?

[Anonymous]

Girl hit me up, we use to talk a lot but not anymore and she was being super dry with me. So I hit her up again, the next day asking if she was ok? and same thing so I ended the convo and told her have a nice one. Why even hmu if you're not even trying to talk?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man that's whack, don't even know why she bothered then. Like what's the point of hitting you up if she's just gonna be dry?

Probably just looking for attention but not actually trying to chat or anything. Some girls do that 'cause they're bored I guess. Or maybe tryna make you chase after her but that's lame.

I wouldn't even sweat it dude, don't give her the time of day if she ain't gonna put in effort too. You were trying to have a convo and she clearly wasn't feeling it. Move on to someone who actually wants to talk for real.

No need to stress, her loss. You seemed keen to chat but she wasn't bringing it. Plenty more fish and all that. Hit up some other girls, maybe you'll find someone down to properly kick it instead of that dry nonsense haha.

[DishLady]

Maybe she IS trying. It's just not coming out the way you'd like to hear it. Are you two around the same age? That's a factor. (Women in their 30s+ who are trying to reconnect with a guy can say some really dry/awkward shit... Same with guys.)

[Asker]

Both early 30s lol we talked before with no issue I just know why theirs an issue now haha

[DishLady]

If you’re interested, try again. Third time’s the charm. 🤞🏼

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know strange behavior ask her