Would you still date someone who happens to have no friends?

[Malborow]

If you met a guy who happens to be a loner and have no friends. Would you find him suspicious. I have always known that people (women specifically) also judge a mans friends so what if he doesn't have one?

[OftenUnsaid]

It depends, I would only date him if he was the one who cut his friends off or him and his friends grew apart If he’s going through that isolation stage (healing) where he found out all of his friends are fake or weren’t good people to be around then I would give him a chance. He has to at least be close to his family and have a male cousin or brother that he hangs out with a lot.

I wouldn’t date him if his friends cut him off. That’s a red flag and only means he is not a trustworthy person and he wouldn’t be a good boyfriend.

Just because someone has friends doesn’t mean those people are good people. Also, just because someone doesn’t have friends doesn’t mean they are suspicious. Some people don’t have friends because they went through a lot of heartache with those friends or they grew apart. This is where communication comes into play.

[Sugar100]

It’s not bad becuase some people are very shy & I myself would be bullied in school by stupid people. I had a disease where I can’t talk & socialize. It’s real. Many people are introverts and too shy to talk & make many friends.

also I hate men that have a lot of friends & party. That’s a huge red flag for me. A party guy that just wants hang with his stupid friends.

[Malborow]

Based on other people’s comments I am an extremely extroverted person and as a result of it I created many connections. Spent most of my 20’s has a party animal but now I am looking for a different lifestyle as I approach my 30’s which is small social gatherings with stronger relationships.

[Account]

Truthfully, I would find it odd. I am an introvert, not very social at all and I still have friendships I have maintained through-out the years.
Also I imagine it leading to potential issues in the relationship.

[JustTryingToLife]

It depends on whether or not he plans on making friends. I'd find it strange if he had no intentions of creating relationships of any kind. Like outside of the one we have. It is weird. Does he have hobbies, friends, other interests apart from wanting someone to be with?

[Anonymous]

I'd be skeptical that's for sure! I guess I'm weighing sexiness, social, mental, and character altogether. Some men are a lone wolf. I've met big alpha males like this, who didn't want to be a leader to other males. All depends, but typically I lean towards no I would not date someone who has no friends. Main reason would be for neediness, unless he is mature and busy about work and hobbies.

[Amandanator]

I would but I can imagine that many women are only looking for popular men to date.

[Malborow]

Social proof

[AmyHew1tt]

It really depends on him and why he has no friends. Context matters I mean, I technically don't have any friends either, but there are solid reasons for that.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends, if he is still normal, charming and funny I would defo consider him for a boyfriend. Though if he was super socially awkward I don't think I would be into him.

[Anonymous]

I would rather be around myself instead of having friends. This generation will set you up for murder if they ever get a chance

[Malborow]

I began to distance myself from people including family due to this reason. Can’t even trust my own shadow…

[Lalalove11]

Yeah because I'm also a loner I don't see a problem in it. However I'd encourage him to make one friend. I have one I don't see too often as she is also very introverted. My other friend lives in another country 😔

[waterliliestxt]

Depends on his circumstances for some people it’s because of job or family situations. I wouldn’t completely write him off but I would definitely be observant of his behavior.

[CrabCakes11]

I would find it strange, but if the reason why is reasonable, it’s fine

[SugarSugarplum]

I would, but if you're my age and have ZERO friends, that's a warning sign. However anyone with no friends - SOMEONE has to be first, right?

[dustybiker2]

Get a clingy girl. They would appreciate your lack of time spent away from her.

[Malborow]

I don’t like clingy people in general.

[dustybiker2]

I hear you. Few people do.

[DishLady]

A guy should really have at least a few close friends….

[Nikki1989]

That would be a red flag. What is wrong with this person?

[katiesmuff]

I wouldn't think that would stop me from dating someone back in those days.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because there's many possible reasons why someone doesn't have any friends. It's doesn't mean they're not a good person or wouldn't be a good partner. It's not a red flag to me. I judge people based on their personality.

[rachel776]

loner no, no friends depends on the reason

[DreamLife7]

No , I would not date them