Take a moment and get to know someone. You may have found a diamond in the rough but how will you know if you judge a facebook by it's lack of cover? Look, it's dating. It's not marriage yet. If your initial instincts draw you to the person, give it a whirl. If your friends, especially regarding couple's activities are important to you, welcome him/her into the fold after a few initial dates if you are still interested. If he/she doesn't seem comfortable, talk to them about your concerns. People with social anxiety are often reall sensitive and sweet people with a lot of amazing qualities. No one is perfect. You can find a social butterfly who will fly off with the first coctail waitress that comes along if it don't work out. Just kidding! Good luck.
I am the kind of guy that doesn't have a lot of friend but has few very good friends. Unfortunately, my best friend who I have been hanging with since we were 3yo has died when he was 30 in 2009. It destroyed me. I haven't been the same since and could never have the same relationship I had with him again. It has caused me somehow to isolate myself even more from casual friends but grew a lot closer to my younger brother who I would say has become my best friend since then. So my circle is very limited because I also have hobbies which doesn't involve other people. You would be perfect for me.
It's a deal breaker. They need to have a life besides me/their immediate family. It would put too much pressure on me to be around 24/7 since they literally don't have anyone else. Also I would find it kind of weird that they don't even have ONE other friend.
Yeah, if we have some things in common. I'm a bit of a loner myself (I'm an introvert). If we can love each other, do things together sometimes but other times give each space... that would honestly be so perfect.
Yes, because I'm the same way, I literally have no friends, just acquaintances. It'd maybe even be better since they wouldn't judge me for having no friends since we're in the same boat.
My ex boyfriend isolated himself and I thought it would be fine but it just didn't work. I learned Im way too extroverted for someone so introverted.
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I have no friends either. Actually, I'm very much close to that situation myself. So it'd be hypocritical of me to say "no". So what if she's "clingy"? I mean I'm going to be "clingy" too. We'd simply "cling" together! lol
Generally, dating like-minded and similar people is the way to go. At least for me, I feel like I have the best chances with someone when we have similar interests, views, personalities, goals, etc.
no it doesn't bother me because yea i have no friends i had to stop hanging out with my old friends because i knew if kept hanging out with them i would end up in jail or worse and i have a tendency to gravitate toward the bad crowd so i kinda just lone wolf it i would rather just hang with a nice girl then party or anything dumb
It's not a deal breaker. On the contrary, it's an advantage for her. I have very little to no friends at all, so we could be each others whole social life :D Of course, this is really only a fantasy, there is no way two people with no friends can meet.
Hmm I am actually hesitant to date a woman with no friends.. In the past when I tried this she usually went clinger 9 status quite quickly. Overly attached pretty much. If she wasn't like that then I guess I'd give it a shot.
Uhhh... sounds like that person probably has some problems to sort with... it's a red flag but Iet's not be overly judgmental here.
It sounds to me like I'd never actually end up meeting them. I mean, you need to have a platform for getting to know someone who would want to date you for them to want to date you.
With things like this, there are no hard and fast rules. All circumstantial situations on a case-by-case basis.
I've give her a try and see how things are!
I guess the next question is how many people who took that pole have friends.
Yes I would. Why not?
Its certainly fine not to have friends, quality friends are tough to come by. And some don't want superficial friends.
How well she cooks is what will determine if she's girlfriend material. Her not having friends is the least of my worries.
I wouldn't have a problem with it. You basically described me. A lot of people are really shy and have social anxiety but that doesn't mean we're not good caring people. We're just harder to get to know.
How about someone with only two friends? From the ladies perspective, I don't need anymore guys after me.
Why dont u juz marry meh and become ma wifey anon babez 💍
This sounds like a bitchy teenage girl question.
But the answer is yes would cares, as long as you have a connection.
Honestly I wouldn't mind she can hang around my friends.
if i'm attracted to her then yes! and that's actually a plus because it means i don't have to hang out with her friends and act like i like them. so i would prefer that lol
I am not a social person so I prefer an "anti social" woman for my match.
This thread is totally about me
Yea, I would! Why not?
you're dating them not their friends. so who cares
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