My boyfriend found out that I talked to some of guys in fb behind his back. I came clean to him. How do I give him assurance I won’t do that again?

[DhdbrbSfia]

My boyfriend found out that I talked to some of guys in fb behind his back. I came clean to him and he read all the texts. I didn’t flirt with the guys, I casually talked. My fault was hiding them. I sincerely apologised and gave him my password and everything. He is keeping the relationship but always trts me like I cheated on him. Whenever his mood is off he drag the matter and insult me in many ways. I listen everything he says and give him reassurance that i won't lie to him about these types of matters. What should I do to give him more assurance and let him cool down about this matter? I didn’t have anything with the boys, even never met them in real life. My boyfriend is very sad about this, doesn’t trust me and I don’t want him to hurt anymore..

[Finchie40]

Dump him , that’s the assurance he needs to stop being so insecure , when someone constantly accuses you of cheating when you haven’t cheated at all , they are the one that is more than likely cheating on you , Just because you talked to some guys’ on Facebook doesn’t make you a bad person , you are a human being and you are allowed to talk to anyone you want to , your boyfriend has no say on who you talk to , if you weren’t flirting and being disrespectful to your boyfriend than he has no right making you feel like you are a cheater , now if the messages showed you flirting and emotionally cheating on your boyfriend , than yes he has a right to be upset but if it was just casual conversations? He has no right whatsoever. It sounds to me that your boyfriend is cheating on you and trying to play a victim when really he is the POS.

[teamvic]

That relationship sounds doomed

you're talking to dudes behind his back, he's talking shit to you

If you ask me you should leave but since that's not what you're asking I will say, you've done everything you can. You can't make him trust you faster. To you it seems innocent but for all he knows you couldve deleted messages

Just gonna have to wait it out and let him get over it, eventually. If he ever does

[DishLady]

Um... WHY would you promise anyone never to chat with other people ever again? That doesn't make sense. If you REALLY were not flirting with any of these guys then what does it matter whether you were online with them or not?

Sounds like the guy doesn't trust you, keeps you on a really short leash and is clearly abusive. That is NOT a healthy relationship. Wtf are you doing with this guy?

[OlderAndWiser]

Why should he trust you now? Maybe you will just be more careful so you don't get caught the next time!

[slatyb]

He f doesn't get to tell you who you call talk to. Keep your private conversations private. Don't share you phone passcode. Play "You Don't Own Me" on repeat.

[In_Trance]

Too late for that