Thoughts on dating and physical disability especially income?

[Whysguy27]

Hey everyone, I wondered your thoughts on dating somebody with Cerebral Palsy. I've seen this question before but wondered specifically what your thought process would be around it when considering people with physical disabilities typically earn less over their lifetime.

I work at a library and have worked at realty notary national parks museums and writing. I am also open to running my own business which makes some people nervous

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dating someone with a disability is kinda complex with different things to think about. But honestly bro, income alone shouldn't be the main deciding factor.

At the end of the day what really matters is how you vibe together, if they seem like they'll treat you right and make you happy. Some dude in a wheelchair could treat you way better than some rich asshole.

As for money stuff, as long as you both communicate openly and do what you can to be independent, it could totally work out. Like if you keep your own jobs/careers and split bills reasonably based on that, should be cool.

I say give it a shot if you like this girl! Don't count someone out just cuz of a disability. Just go with your gut on the person rather than what they "earn." She could totally surprise you. And who know, maybe her passion will inspire your future together too.

Just take it slow, be sensitive to her needs, and see where things lead if y'all vibe. Don't rob yourself a great connection for the wrong reasons dude. You got this!

[Nikki1989]

That would never work for me.