Why did my date ghost me?

[emgl99]

I went on 2 dates with this guy and even after the last date he texted me every morning and every night good morning & goodnight, yesterday he texted me good morning then no more goodnight and didn’t text this morning either. Is there a big possibility he is talking to someone else now? He laughed with me a lot on 2nd date and invited me to go skydiving with him on his birthday. I don’t know what happened here..

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I was thinking comatose somewhere🤣🤣🤣

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. He didn't ghost you. You're overthinking it. For him to ghost you, you'd have to text him & he wouldn't answer back. He didn't do that. He just simply stopped texting you greetings. Just chill out & let things flow naturally. Have you tried calling him?

[emgl99]

No, I didn’t try calling him. Really? Does not speaking for 2 days suddenly mean ghosting?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wait let's not jump to conclusions maybe he's just busy or maybe he might be having a family emergency after all it's only been one day. But let me ask you this did you have sex with him after your second date?

[emgl99]

Hi! You are right. But I don’t have any other way to get in touch with him as I deleted the contact and logs. Also, no I did not. We were not in a setting where we could do that, and I did tell him I am not having sex until I develop affection. 🤣

[Iron_Man]

Something must have happened maybe you didn’t give sex up, but you shouldn’t anyway. Now you’re gonna have to call him on the phone and ask him

[emgl99]

I’m not chasing. And I did not give sex up. We always met at a restaurant. 2 dates are too soon to even truly open up for too much. And no I won’t call him, he ghosted me. And the last text he’ll ever get is the last reply I had to his last text. If he disappeared w/o reason, then there’s nothing worth asking why. 😭🤣

[Iron_Man]

OK suit yourself. I don’t blame you. I hate ghosting 👻 But if it was a serious relationship, you should definitely call but he is like a stranger to you.

[emgl99]

Yes at this point, he still is a stranger. Just it sucks you know, regardless of how shallow the interaction may have been, ghosting still has effect.

[Iron_Man]

Yes, of course I can completely understand

[Danny_dan92]

Did you fuck?

[emgl99]

Nope

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah he probably moved on. Or he died

[emgl99]

I was thinking comatose somewhere🤣🤣🤣

[Danny_dan92]

That could be a possibility also

[emgl99]

I’d rather he moved on than died tho🤣🤣🤣 you’re too harsh

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah, oh well