What are the pros and cons of having a boyfriend?

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Darkchild25 · Accepted Answer

No shame but at 30 and you don't have the experience of having had a boyfriend?

It's like a friend but you get to kiss him. You can tell him everything. Even things you wouldn't want others to know.
Everyone has their bad points but it's dependent on the individual you're with and what you can tolerate. I guess a negative is you have to accept certain things about them as everyone has something. It's that or just be single.
Another is sometimes you might want your space. Having a partner means you have to compromise, sometimes your partner will need you. You'll have to sacrifice your alone time but hopefully it won't seem like a sacrifice.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

Are we dunking on dating now?
Pros of having a girlfriend: Someone to cuddle, best friend to talk out your feelings & thoughts, someone to share your interests & passions with, sex, and showing appreciation for all that you do.

Pro2: When you return the favors and keep the love cycle going.

No cons, not one.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

The big pro is that you get to share your life with someone you have feelings of love for… and you get to feel protected and happy in a way that you don’t really feel otherwise.

The big con is that compromise constantly has to be made on both sides, which sometimes leads to arguments…

Not everything has to be rainbows and sunshine, but if you find the arguments and gaps outweigh the caring and sharing then you’re not with the right person.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

That depends on what kind of boyfriend you have. Some relationships are more demanding and such than others. I guess pro and a con is time in general. Time with a person you generally like is amazing, but you also need to compromise time away from other things to make a relationship really work

AviatorTom · Answer

Pro: You get to have sex Con: He always wants sex

Hannajenky · Answer

pros, having a trusted and reliable friend and partner, someone to go to shows with, someone who enjoys just hanging out. Someone to kiss, make love with and all of that. It’s fun getting to know your little quirks and flaws and also fun getting to meet all of his friends.

cons, hmmm. I like being in a relationship. Fighting sucks though. If you’re with someone who is manipulative or extremely jealous it can’t get tedious and toxic very easily. I guess if you meet someone else and you really hit it off you aren’t free to just run off with them for a weekend (we are monogamous),

I know there are more of each but can’t think of any right now

rosemilk · Answer

pros: emotional support, love, making memories, experiencing things with each other

cons: the time and energy needs to be consistent, possible fights (but that's okay if handled maturely), not as much independence as you're used to, financials (anything could happen, biggest cause of breakups/divorces/disagreements)

just_a_potato · Answer

Pros - He will make you laugh, he's a moving breathing dildo, he's a shoulder to cry on and you will never need a bed comforter again, you get to discover someone in an intimate way you can't with anyone else in your life

Cons - He will probably make you cry, he's a moving breathing dildo, basically everything else men do

paledreams · Answer

The difficulties of having to deal with another person day to day can be tiring I'd think if it's not as pleasant as what the opening of Frozen the movie showed between Anna and Hans. When people aren't in sync, even worse hahaha - nothing but picking and arguing. I went straight to the cons lol
The pros - I suppose women have a supportive other human to love and cuddle them and to be helpful or useful to them lol 😆😂

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Pros: We’d probably always agree on tacos 🌮 or burritos. We’d likely have good salaries to combine to buy cool toys. He’d always be down for fishing and beer…

Cons: The sex would be really very terrible… and our beards would rub when we kissed. 🤮

sage2021 · Answer

Having a boyfriend makes me hypervigilant because I just don't trust them. I've been cheated on enough to break my trust in any guy. Thing is, you can't see what he's doing behind your back.

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DannyUk2017 · Answer

Pro: You'll have someone interesting to talk with, you are curious about him, you will want to do things together.. Con: You will get bored after a while and One of you will Cheat...🤷‍♂️

sawno · Answer

Depends on who you pick as your boyfriend haha, whatever his pro's are will be the pro's, whatever his con's are will be the cons.

Billlewis · Answer

Pros -- having someone to talk to and spend time with. Cons -- we typically expect sex before too long, though we don't deserve it.

Twalli · Answer

The main pro are that someone who isnit obligated to love you by being a family member does. The main con is that thry expect something from you, which thry might not tell you.
This works with both genders.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Pro: you have someone that's not blood related, in your orbit now (that also isn't JUST a friend) Con: you now, especially with marriage, are stuck with that person, supposedly, the rest of your life

Jamknot9 · Answer

Man and Women are meant to be together. You going to love your ass is going to suffer.. it's work put in for real.

PeachyBluebeary · Answer

Pro: not being lonely Con: having to cleanup/watch after a man child

Unit1 · Answer

And here i am reading how to not be a pain in the ass for the girls 🥰💕

dragoblack · Answer

That all depends on who you are with. It's different from person to person

Stella1990 · Answer

Pros no loneliness and con they up in your business 24/7.

Jennz6 · Answer

Pro: Sex Con: cleaning up after

aleejandraaat · Answer

more cons than pros

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