Men, Would you date a woman that weighed more than you do?

[Apple1996]

Yes I would

No I wouldn't

I wouldn't date a woman

[sawno]

I am very light for a guy so I would as long as she visually looks fine. I am into slim or average weight build girls.

[mentallybroken0420]

I'm not a man but a little extra weight doesn't hurt nun as they say MORE CUSHION FOR THE PUSHIN!!☺️😂😂😂

[Shiprex]

I like that poetry
I've heard it's more to grab on to for the ride.

[Nikki1989]

Yes I would. I am not that petty or insecure over such trivial details.

[Flatmanlewis]

To imply that not wanting to be with somebody for a preference is ONLY the domain of the petty or insecure seems kind of shortsighted. What about the related health consequences, many of which may pass on to our future children? What about an inability to participate in a hobby or lifestyle one is passionate about? Would those be valid reasons?

[BetaBucks]

@Flatmanlewis it's also dishonest because everyone has attraction standards. None of these women have dated dudes with dwarfism, and very few have dated dudes shorter than them. Everyone has standards. That's not pettiness or insecurity.

[Flatmanlewis]

Agreed, BetaBucks. When women have preferences it’s just a high-five with their girlfriends and a coy giggle. When men have preferences it’s suddenly a social crisis and indication of a flaws in acceptance.

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis as someone with 5 kids. I have 0 preferences for a partner. Saying it's because of reproduction is a silly excuse

[Flatmanlewis]

It’s not an excuse. It’s a reason, and to each their own. I see many of the traits my children inherited from my wife, and myself, and am grateful for it.

[Flatmanlewis]

Also, have “zero preferences for a partner” would make you an almost complete anomaly as nearly everybody has preferences of some kind - be it height, weight, ethnicity, style, hair color, etc.

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis not everything comes from the parents. Genes can come from grandparents or great grandparents that we didn't even know so choosing a partner just based on looks to be passed down isn't a good idea

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis nah I know many people that do not have preferences. That is honestly some weird shallow shit I'm only seeing from people online

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis also the only people online I notice talk about their type or preferences a lot tend to be porn addicts. They don't go outside and acutally talk to women to know enough about them to have a preference for a real reason

[Flatmanlewis]

The basic laws of male to female attraction revolve around deeply rooted perceptions of her fertility and capacity to bear children so this is mammalian programming. A mates health (both genetics & apparent lifestyle) reflect in our children.

Second, if you’re telling me that most of the people you know don’t have a “type” they like then you would be a first. This is simply an unbelievable statement. EVERYBODY has a preference of some kind. From food to mates. Unless somebody is so desperate that they will literally take anybody who pays them notice, it’s not true.

My work group is among the most diverse I’ve ever been in - with various religious, ethnic, racial, socioeconomic, and physical differences. Nearly all of them (in free and open conversations) admit to having a type.

[RetroReviews]

You are pretty

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 Nearly every woman on GAG has talked about their preferences and types. I don't think it's fair to call them porn addicts over it. I'm sure some are, but that's not the majority.

[Apple1996]

@BetaBucks the majority of "women" on GaG are men behind pink accounts 😂😂 so I'm sure their porn addiction is terrible even worse than most

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis most normal people have preferences for personality and other things besides looks. Looks only last so long and can so easily be changed it's not worth having a preference over unless you are only gonna date that person for a short amount of time

[Apple1996]

@RetroReviews thanks 😊

[RetroReviews]

Then you are awesome

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 lol probably true about who's behind most of the accounts. But still, the actual women also all have preferences. I'd be shocked if you didn't. Like, have you dated an obese guy or a guy with dwarfism? Or an elderly guy? Or an ugly guy? I mean, it's possible, don't get me wrong, but I'd bet all my money that you still have preferences. And I'd be surprised if you've never talked about any of them on GAG.

[RetroReviews]

@Flatmanlewis so that's why I was attracted to women with big boobs? 😎

[RetroReviews]

@Apple1996 anytime , and wow five kids huh you have my utmost respect 😉

[Apple1996]

@BetaBucks I see nothing wrong with a short, fat or ugly guy. Old is a bit different I don't see that as a looks thing but I wouldn't want a partner that I can't grow with

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 you said you didn't see anything wrong with it, but are you saying you don't have a preference either way? And by the way, I creeped on your profile for literally one minute and can see you making multiple comments about your preferences, so you're not fooling me anymore lol. But it's okay. I swear it. You're not a bad person for it at all.

[Apple1996]

@BetaBucks can't think of any questions I answer here that are stating my preferences for looks

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 I think you're just messing with me now, but your opinions show you referencing things you find attractive on men.

[Apple1996]

@BetaBucks I find men attractive but I don't have preferences for their looks

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 if you find specific things about men more attractive than not having those things, that's literally what a preference is.

[Apple1996]

@BetaBucks lol I understand what a preference is 😂 I just don't care about anything specific looks wise

[BetaBucks]

@Apple1996 but you do. You've made that clear. You're just either making fun of me right now or being dishonest.

[Flatmanlewis]

@RetroReviews, well there definitely is some biological science behind it but probably, like me, I just love busty women because they look amazing. Who doesn’t love boobs?

Thank you BetaBucks. You made my point.

[RetroReviews]

@Flatmanlewis yes busty woman was always my weakness

[Apple1996]

@RetroReviews boobs are also my weakness😵

[RetroReviews]

Really? ...🤔tell me more

[Apple1996]

@RetroReviews yess really lol

[Flatmanlewis]

They are your weakness? A skilled investigator would pursue that lead and establish a fact. In this case, dare I say it, a preference?

[Kingofkings1992]

@betabucks
Apple contradicts herself all the time

[RetroReviews]

Still waiting on that test but you teased when you said do I really want to see and I said yes yes LOL

[Apple1996]

@Flatmanlewis everyone has boobies so not much of a preference unless the person is missing them but still that'd be fine

[Apple1996]

@Kingofkings1992 I've never claimed to have any preferences for looks. Maybe for other things like attitude/personality

[Kingofkings1992]

@Apple1996
Everyone has preferences in looks. You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t. I don’t know who you think you’re fooling

[Flatmanlewis]

No. They don’t.

[Apple1996]

@Kingofkings1992 many people don't

[Shiprex]

It's not an insecurity to have preferences. That term is so overused and no longer means anything

[Avicenna]

I am skinny and prefer dating taller women, so it's happened before.

[AviatorTom]

No I would not. Assuming she is of average height, that would put her in the obese category, and I would not date an obese woman.

[Skinhead-1979]

My ex is 5'3 and weighs 197lbs; I am 5'6 and weigh 137lbs

I loved her body... and would not have wanted her to change anything about it weren't it for the fact that I got sick of hearing "I am Fat; I am Ugly; I am useless... you will dump me as soon as you find better!"

No, I wouldn't have... no matter how pretty or cute the other lady would have been, she would still not be the person I fell in love with and chose to spend my life with.

I've taken her emotional abuse, lying and deceiving too without even considering of abandoning her (I should have... she nearly killed me; 5 suicide attempts because of her).

[Apple1996]

Oh no sorry to hear that 😢

[nolabels]

Nope, but a week after she said, "I Do", she did, never to return to weighing less than me.
In fact, as each year passes, the difference in our weights grows exponentially.
We've been together 30+ years.
You do the math.

[Apple1996]

Omg what? Has she been on the 600lb life show? Lol

[BetaBucks]

I understand if this isn't my business, so please don't feel compelled to answer, but I'm just curious if you were able to maintain a normal sex life after that?

[nolabels]

@BetaBucks What's a sex life?

[SweetJoyGirl]

Dangggg 😭😭😭

[RingOfFire]

"We've been together 30+ years.
You do the math."

🤣🤣🤣

[BetaBucks]

@nolabels lol sorry man...

[nolabels]

@RingOfFire Yeah, easy for you to laugh, man.

Lol.

Hey, at least I still can laugh, too.

[nolabels]

@BetaBucks
Thanks, man.

At least it looks as if I may not live much longer.

See, I still have a sense of humor about the situation.
🤪

[Apple1996]

@nolabels so sorry 😔

[nolabels]

Hey, thanks.

And thanks to everyone else who has responded.

I've been cheered up in ways that I hope all of you kind folks are able to experience for yourselves.

No kidding.

🙏👍😊🤪❤️

[nolabels]

@SweetJoyGirl Tell me about it.
🤪👍😊

[MisterWack]

“Yes I would” translates roughly to, ‘I don’t weigh much so yeah alright’.

“No I wouldn’t” translates roughly to, ‘Nooo I weigh too much so she will be too’ sort of thing.

Depends on perspective, though I choose a woman based on character & personality & integrity above all (I chose my girlfriend that way)

[DannyUk2017]

I wouldn't mind... i jave reached a stage in my life when i've gained weight quite a bit sort of dad bod, but... The Mind, Brain, Soul is more important... those never gain weight nor loose weight, they will be just the same, or even better, as the curiousity makes the life a little more "entertaining/spicy"...🤷‍♂️

[DannyUk2017]

I *have... Damn it thick fingers...😅

[truckgod92]

Surprised this isn't a @Viola_456 question.

Also I don't think so. I'm pretty tall and workout. I knew a polynesian girl once who was 8 inches shorter and 250 pounds/113.5 kilos that even football guys passed on because she was so massive.

[Billlewis]

She'd better weigh more than I do. I'm only 200--210. I like 'em big. It's like going fishing -- the small ones I throw back.

[Apple1996]

Throwing the small ones back 😭 you'd def throw me back

[Billlewis]

If you haven't already locked that ass up, of course;)

[RetroReviews]

Looks fade what's in your heart and how you treat me is what really matters

[Berethor]

If she virgin I guess, men tend to weigh more than women so you can say that it a masculine trait, but I always cared more about being taller than a woman that about weighing more than a woman.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[AaronKrieger]

Sure, I have done it before and it was awesome. Not gonna be nitpicky over something like her weight 😂

[Shiprex]

I have and would if she was worth it. Same with taller women who'd be heavier than I. I could probably still lift her if she was under 100kg but it wouldn't be throwing her around like a doll kind of thing.

[Sharkstealth]

I only weigh 209. Don't tell me your weight but tell me If thats acceptable and if you weigh less? I just wonder the possibility percentage.

[Apple1996]

I'm tiny so it's rare that a guy is close to my weight

[Sharkstealth]

I'm in great cardio shape. I have well defined front rear and mid deltoid. Where I lack is calves and glutes because I don't get enough of the best exercise for those.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I guess it would depend on how the weight was distributed.

Like if she was really really tall with huge boobs, that would be one thing.

If she was just overweight, probably not.

[molonski2]

If it was because she was muscular no problem at all , but if because she was just fat , no way , I'm very conscious of healthy weight.

[matchrestore]

Yeah I married a woman that weighs more than me.

[RyanR03]

Yes I would. I hope it doesn’t sound mean but I don’t like it if a woman if just morbidly obese. That is just too much and too far. But if she is 200 pounds but if she is kind and nice in the face, honestly I am sure I would be excited by her. Because I like fullness and thickness

[dolemite58]

No i don’t want to be crushed when she is on top of me 😟

[Apple1996]

Getting crushed is the fun part about being the smaller person 😆

[ADFSDF1996]

If she's only pudgy but not obese then sure I'd date her.

[mattthefatbat]

Well honestly yes I would. Her weight isn't gonna change how much I love her

[FunkyMonkee]

Been there, done that. At least once. All 5 of my lovers were overweight. No idea if they were heavier than me but I think Sally was.

[firenine909]

Given how skinny I am I’d be perfectly fine. I’d reccomend if you aren’t smaller than 5’2”. Although if I weighed more than no

[BonzoInBitburg]

Most of the women I dated weight almost half of what I weighed.

[DevikaButts95]

When they weigh heavier than me, feels cozier under their butt. Lmao.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably not, but I've come fairly close. I'm 6'2 and weigh around the same 195 I have since I hit that height more than eight years ago. One girlfriend was 6'1-1/2 and weighed about 170/175.

[Southcoastradwolf]

of course. weight has nothing to do with being attractive to me. its about personality, how they carry themselves, self confidence, feeling sexy themselves. i admire that massively as i struggle with it myself.

[MattyIce_IceBaby]

Yes, my girlfriend weighs more than I do. Not an issue.

[Nicebutt462]

They probably know what tastes good.

[mstbooblover]

Of course I would date a woman weighing more than me. Although not mandatory, considering I love big saggy breasts and confortable soft curves, odds are high my preference would go to such a lady.

[Levin]

I work out for 2.5 hours a day sometimes. That would just be an incompatible lifestyle.

I'm also not attracted to overweight women.

[Apple1996]

It's not really about being overweight

[BlkM84]

I’ve always had a thing for plus-size women…🤷🏾‍♂️

[Tim2nice]

I prefer women with meat on their bones. Only dogs like bones

[Flatmanlewis]

No. I would not. For several reasons but high among them is compatibility with my own lifestyle, and my strong preference & attraction to petite women, of which weight is by definition a factor.

[Falcon12345]

To be fair here I have never had weight as a criteria when choosing a girlfriend I am thinking about other things like her personality and how her energy spreads across a room not how loose her belt is

[DrPepper12]

I never have so the transition would be very odd and difficult.

[Nifrayu]

As long as it's healthy weight. If she is just out of shape and overweight, then I wouldn't be interested.

[Wiredone]

That depends on if we had a connection. If we did, yes I would

[MackBoy]

I am not marrying woman for their weight, i will marry her as long she has a good and kind heart to me.

[Miristheiss]

I am 6'2", 215.

She had to have a nice, fit figure.

I guess if she was fit, 6'7" girl and 218.

A 5'6" who is 218... NO!

[Cubus]

I am 5'11 and weight around 225 pounds, so that would be hard.

[art84]

I am 170 pounds and wouldn't mind if a girl weighed more than least 180 pounds.

[NYlatefun]

Tough question! It’d depend on many other factors.

[SixFootSexy]

I'm thin and tall and like them busty petite.

Most other guys prefer that body type as well.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope but only cause I'm a big guy at 6'5 I weigh 272 pounds and I like short women that's a lot of weight to carry on a small frame

[BetaBucks]

No. I'm just not attracted to women that are out of shape.

[Apple1996]

Are you out of shape?

[BetaBucks]

No, I keep my abs visible and hit the weights a few times a week to keep my muscles up. Cardio a few times a week too. I cycle out carbs just to keep the body fat down. Minimal effort, but it's enough to stay fit.

[beefcakebradybatson]

H**L to the NO !!!(More than 200 lb? YEAH, RIGHT !!!)

[nawtee_me]

There is more to a girl than her weight or height…,

[Charliefretz329]

I have in the past. But now, no. Also I’m a pretty decently sized guy.

[_Troian_]

No I wouldn't, it's all about attraction and I wouldn't get attracted to woman who weights more than me.

[Dargil]

No because I weigh 215. She'd have to be a halfback.

[Apple1996]

A very tall girl could be that weight

[Dargil]

I'd need a ladder, I think.

[Lokiion]

I mean I’m a pretty big guy but someone women hold weight in certain place that don’t make them look fat so yeah but holy she gonna be 200+ lbs

[kwsmith2]

Not against it in theory but in practice this isn't realistically going to happen.

[soe11]

• I preferred light weight.
• Slim sexy, stunning.

[marish01]

They will if they don't have a good choice lol

[Apple1996]

Some guys are also just small

[marish01]

And?

[Apple1996]

Meaning they could easily be less weight than a woman no matter their choices

[marish01]

Ok but most tall attractive men prefer attractive women.

[handsomelad70]

H**L NO !!!(A 200+ pound girlfriend? When pigs [or fat broads] fly !!!)

[Apple1996]

That means you think you are fat like a pig 😂

[handsomelad70]

Then why are broads still complimenting my outstanding good looks at age 71 as of tomorrow?

[Surely]

I am 6’ 2”. At my current weight. Unless the woman would be extremely tall for a female. There would be just too much of her.

[turnpost]

Women are more preocupied with such question. Guys are mostly fixated on geting anything tbh

[Apple1996]

Lol what do you mean by getting anything?

[turnpost]

Appreciation, respect, stability from the market. The economy has made it hard for people to get a dignified job as there so much competition these days.

[Darkchild25]

I have before, I don't think I will again. I just don't find bigger women attractive

[OtterMan68]

no, it would mean she's morbidly obese

[Apple1996]

That would mean you are close to obese lol

[OtterMan68]

not for my size: 6'0 175

[Pohjolan]

I'm over 6 feet tall and lift so chances are no unless she is some badass freak of nature amazonas.