How do you know he is a good guy?

[Talaee666]

How many dates you should go? how do you know he is a good guy to be your boyfriend?

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we know each other for three years and we saw each other four times is he a good guy? Is it enough?

[Nirmroth]

Its not like you have to marry him straight away.

I usually go after the 3s rule.

3 steps:

See how things go after 3 dates then 3 weeks and (in total) 3 months before thinking about going exclusive.

If he and you are still interested after every step he's boyfriend material.

Just 3 dates aren't enough in my opinion but given that you know each other for 2 years I would go after the pace you're most comfortable with. Right now you're still unsure so see how it is after 3 weeks. there's no rush in dating its main purpose is to get to know each other and see if it can last.

[thomastown]

If you never knew him before, give it 3 months. If you knew him, he's the same guy you knew, just with sex now.

[Talaee666]

How many dates?

[DishLady]

How are WE supposed to tell YOU if someone we’ve never seen is a good guy? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[bowenw]

There is no set time. I suggest you see him until the both of you are certain however long it takes.

[Wiredone]

If he treats you with respect and he doesn't force you to do anything, he's usually a good guy