How can you tell if a guy is good or if you need to find out for yourself?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I've been experimenting with Facebook dating, and it's been hit or miss. A guy did reject me when I told him I couldn't meet until after the holiday. Inquire about your interest. This part turned a little weird. I apologise woy wouldn't work out, I said. After that, I blocked him and said, "I'm not interested in you anymore."I came across another man who had taken a photo of me flying. He's also got a sunflower lanyard on. He also inquires as to your search criteria. I said a serious relationship without games or seduction tactics. Honest, respectful, and reliable.

[dynamicyandere]

Finding out if a person is good, isn’t gender-specific. It is just a matter of finding out if someone is a good person. That takes time. It takes lots of interaction, lots of observation, and of course, intuition.


Anybody can pretend to be the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend if your interactions are limited. The less the interaction, the longer they can maintain a facade.


The more the interaction, the harder it is for them fake who they are. You may begin to notice things slipping through the cracks.


As you get to know them, you’ll begin to see if everything is adding up, or if things aren’t adding up.


The more you’re around them, the more opportunities to spot red flags.


If you have a highly developed intuition and your intuition has a great track record of being correct, you can usually trust it.


So, how do you tell immediately? Trust your intuition. (If your intuition is well developed.)


Otherwise, you just need to get to know them better. Spend more time with them. Spend time in different contexts. Ask about them, and try to understand them at a deeper level.


The more you know them… The more you spend time with them… The harder it will be for them to pretend to be someone or something else.

[Avicenna]

You usually have to spend some time with someone to know unless they make some remark that shows they aren't.

[dragoblack]

a lot of guys out there are insecure and get butthurt from being denied. It's honestly childish & petty, but how they deal with rejection is a good way to check. Obviously don't full out reject their romantic advances but when talking reject the smaller stuff and see his reaction to it.
Obviously there are red flags when it comes to dating like if his intentions are obviously sexual, he just wants a hookup, but if he takes the time to get to know you, he is looking for romance, but you need to ask back and forth, guys takes it as disinterest if he is the only one asking questions.