Ladies, what's your ideal guy in terms of both appearance and personality?

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[DishLady]

What, you want a description of a "Golden Pony" type guy? No guy or girl is perfect, so there's no point in overthinking it.

Appearance-wise I look for open eyes, a sexy smile, good hands and a confident-but-humble posture and demeanor. He should look like a smart, capable guy, plain and simple. A little taller than me is nice.

Personality-wise I demand honesty and gentlemanly courtesy. A good sense of humor and solid set of moral values are musts. He should be smart and capable (plain and simple). A few quirks here and there are nice.

Ir's more important that we "fit" as people than that either of us meets some unrealistic classification for looks etc. It might be a little different for you since you're still v. young and might think you have options, but the sooner you realize the importance of being a good man and finding a good woman the less time you'll waste with the wrong women/in the wrong circles.

[D_D_D]

@DishLady I totally agree with you.
As though young I always said that personality is way more important than looks cuz appearance is important to attract at first impression but eventually you gotta live with that person so he's gotta have a good personality in addition to just looks.
Thank you for your input I appreciate the honesty🙏

[DishLady]

But appearance doesn't HAVE to mean "the one with the hottest body". Honestly, the one or two guys I was ever actually attracted to simply had killer smiles and the other traits I described above.

[D_D_D]

@DishLady Yes I agree with you!! A few years back when I was in high school there was this super cute girl who had simple natural beauty and the cutest little short ponytail I've ever seen and omg her cuteness was the thing I was drawn to the most.. but I didn't get the chance to do much we only talked once and a few years later after I recruited to the army I saw her in my base she was also a soldier and somehow I recognized her and we talked a bit.. and after a few days I decided I gotta make a move and when I finally built up the courage the war started and everything was messy so unfortunately I never saw her again😔
Anyways my point is.. it's the little stuff like a cute short ponytail that she pulls off better than any other girl I've ever seen that made me like her so much and of course her gorgeous smile lol😅

[DishLady]

Aww... that's so sad and sweet at the same time. :(

And thank you for your service, by the way...

Sure, the "magic" of the person is in the little stuff. :)

[D_D_D]

Lol I don't think I'm in your country's army but I'm sure we're allies lol😂 thank you though I really do appreciate it.. soldiers don't hear that enough 🙏❤️
And yes you're right if you find yourself attracted to the little stuff In a girl/guy then you know you're right for each other.
and I hope you'll find the one who posseses the qualities you are interested in.. unless you already found him, then in that case I'm happy for you lol 😊

[DishLady]

Thanks. :)

[SueShe]

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Good body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

[D_D_D]

@sueshe So.. when do I pick you up?😜
Although my "detail" is not small at all lol😂

[D_D_D]

JK lol well.. I appreciate you not being superficial that's a rare quality these days.
Thank you for your input 🙏 and I hope you'll find the guy who posseses these qualities 😊

[SueShe]

Thanks but I am not interested in dating. I value my single life way too much and sex does not interest me, so I don't have to worry about all those details.

[D_D_D]

@sueshe Lol I was just kidding girlllll😂

[D_D_D]

@sueshe Oh u talked about the guy lol I thought u took me seriously on the proposal 😂

[SueShe]

thanks for the MHO

[IslaTheWitch]

sharp mind, witty humor, challenging character, able to show raw emotions... and this smile and strong bony hands... :D

[Lenabfine]

I like normal guys ig and easy going personality