What is your ideal guy?

[StormMistress]

My dream guy.

1. loyal
2. Assertive
3. Funny
4. Loving
5. Treats me like gutter trash in the bedroom 😅

[DizzyDesii]

Within 0-3 years of my age, anywhere between Height 5’7-6’3, weight lean to avg build (toned but not buff muscular), little to no body hair, nice smile even if slightly imperfect teeth, no piercings (unless eyebrow), little as in small or no tats, Straight/male-born male (not bi/trans), goofy, respectful, sweet, nurturing, caring, talkative, courageous, protective, faithful, not a cocky/arrogant/know-it-all, works hard regardless of pay, believes in God, doesn't smoke, not big on drinking, wants kids in his 20s, good kisser, boobman,, has had sex with less than 5 people, is not into anal, works out on occasion, loves all genres of movies/music, not obsessed with videogames/anime, enjoys theme parks, not big on politics, not big on guns, rarely uses sarcasm, lonewolf mentality, and hopeless romantic

[chicosuave]

Yes they can but remember you will never find that perfect guy and you're very likely to become single for the rest of your life. Today there's a lot of single 40 year old woman then 30 years ago. If you lower you're expectations to half you will find that man and you're less likely to be single. Not a perfect man but close. Today there's more single mothers then ever before and every day more divorced women. 70 percent of women initiate divorce so there go. Single forever to most women and that ok.

[StormMistress]

That’s why we write fan fic lol

[DizzyDesii]

@chicosuave i dont need to lower my standards. I met plenty who met everything above except for one... the one would usually be not believing in God, being out of my age range, not wanting kids until 30s, or being polygamous instead of monogamous. I’m not willing to adjust those standards and I dont consider them perfect. I have dated plenty of perfectly imperfect men and if they continue to be just temporary, so be it. All i can do is try and hope for the best

[chicosuave]

I didn't say he has to be a complete mess. But it's your funeral alone.

[DizzyDesii]

@chicosuave and i also said that i’ve dated many before and dont expect a man to have all the traits above but certainly 90% of them. Some are preferences, some are dealbreakers. So you focus on who you’ll wnd up with and i’ll do the same for myself

[chicosuave]

90% is still very high. Which you are likely to still end up single anyways same as the people you already know. Today most relationships don't last. And most break up are initiated by women same with divorce. It could be 10 - 15 year relationships.
Either way most women could end up as a single mother or divorced multiple times it's happening to a lot of women. Women may have all these expectations but most guys will never meet them. It could be through out the relationships or just dating them etc etc. Most of us guys right now our standards and expectation is usually 10% to 50% percent when it comes to being in a relationship with a girl. That's a sad reality unless he is the most desirable by women then of course his expectations will be higher and he can choose any girl he wants when he wants. My point is that regardless of how many men you meet or get into a relationship most will never meet those expectations. especially with a high percentage. Sure you have all rights too have very high standards but the evidence shows that you will die alone same to what's heppening to millions of other women. And that's ok. It's all about being single forever and ever.

[DizzyDesii]

@chicosuave and is that supposed to bother me? Being a single mom isn't as bad as people make it so if I end up down that route, so be it. And yes i probably did initiate most of my breakups because Im not going to settle nor cheat so im going to breakup if i just absolutely can't see myself with the person anymore. Of course i’ll try to make things work but if it doesn't, it doesn't. Like i said, you do as you please and i’ll keep dating the 90%s i met. If we work, we work. If we dont, we dont. Please stop bothering me with the nonsense now

[chicosuave]

Haha yet you're still here responding. No one is forcing you to reply

[DizzyDesii]

@chicosuave and clearly you enjoy bothering me so thats why you keep replying

[jestergent]

I like it. I think I met half the requirements.

[jestergent]

Actually 2/3s or 3/4s. I hope most women want a guy like that. Helps me out

[DizzyDesii]

@jestergent Thank you. Like i said my standards aren't impossible lol

[chicosuave]

Shuuushhhh women !!🤫
Can't you see I'm busy with my good looks and charms 😎

[Little_Bumblebee]

I don't know what my ideal guy is.

Someone I'm comfortable with can share stuff with, someone I can be myself with, and where he can feel he can too. Someone where we make each other better. Compatibility in personality, sexually, and in life.

Someone where we both feel lucky to be with each other, and where we can trust each other.

[chicosuave]

Yes they can but remember you will never find that perfect guy and you're very likely to become single for the rest of your life. Today there's a lot of single 40 year old woman then 30 years ago. If you lower you're expectations to half you will find that man and you're less likely to be single. Not a perfect man but close. Today there's more single mothers then ever before and every day more divorced women. 70 percent of women initiate divorce so there go. Single forever to most women and that ok.

[VikingWarLord]

I already knew that last one by your pics.

Got insecurity written all over you, fun to degrade and punish in the sack but I don't think you'd like me in other ways, I do tend to cheat on your type knowing I can get hotter. But I think you secretly like a hot alpha who can snag hotter biitches than you too. Degradation fantasies written all over you.

[Pinay_ako]

B ad boy only for me
I n love with me
G ood in bed

D own to earth
I nitiates romance
C aring
K issable

Jk. 😅
I love him , he loves me. That’s all that matters 💕

[hIopinionated_]

My ideal guy in a relationship
1. Mutual respect
2. trustworthy
3. honest
4. attentiveness
5. loyal
6. Loving


3 of those are absolutely something that my relationship should have. The others are quite learnable. They are all the bare minimum though so every relationship should have these traits from BOTH people in the relationship


The very first thing I care about is “respect” and that’ll never change

[hIopinionated_]

Oh and understanding. My ex is a damn idiot. We’re friends and this idiot STILL doesn’t understand why we broke up

[TonyMetal___86]

From 1 to 4 i agree with you but not sure what you're 5th opinion means 🤔

I'll add to the things that you have said:

Love to become a housewife, believes in a sacred eternal marriage, to do her best to make her husband happy, also to cook delicious meals 😁

[Guanfei]

I think I have 3 of them. Maybe 4 but I can't know before trying.

[StormMistress]

Ooh I like where this is going 😆😅

[Guanfei]

Well you could be disappointed, I never tried that 🤔😏

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I thought those were the bare minimum, that does sound like a nice guy though, gotta get yourself a man like that 😉

[StormMistress]

Well I’m not super picky honest just be decent and rough in the sack and we golden 😆

[Sixgunsound]

I was expecting you to do another interpretation of the love is patient love is kind verse from Corinthians, but then you went the complete opposite direction🤣

[Mess96]

Kind, caring, accepts and loves me for who I am inside and out, loyal/faithful, honest, respectful to me in all mind states, trustworthy, supportive, understanding, and funny

[Blackcosmo]

1. Empathetic
2. Funny
3. Loyal
4. Loving

[Lionman95]

Why the last one? I´m just curious because I didn´t expect that and it kind of confuses me a bit.

[KelleyNice]

August Maturo

[darkoflights]

sorry baby but there is no guy who has all of them in the world hahahaa

[d3n0939]

most of guys are like that, basically she described a normal guy

[darkoflights]

@d3n0939 well then i have never met them ; )

[d3n0939]

find a loving guy, he will have all those qualities

[darkoflights]

@d3n0939 you have pinky glasses towards life i guess :d

[ZS007]

I'm more attracted to cute guys rather to macho masculine guys

[Gloree]

-tall with leadership skills. I prefer him to take charge while I just contribute. I'm also attracted to someone who is a bit jovial but serious. Luckily I found him.

[AviatorTom]

Those 5 items could apply to a pet cat too! I like them.

[ArtemisSilver]

Sounds like I could pull most of that off.

As for my perfect gal, check out my post on looking for a wifu lol

[TheBigGuy9]

You forgot the default one. The standard. He has to be attractive cuz you’re pretty decent looking yourself.

[pizzalovershouse]

Ok all sound good but last one you smell like a trash mound not my idea of fun

[StormMistress]

It’s basically treat me rough, dirty trash talk and dominate me hard in the bedroom.

[pizzalovershouse]

Oh ok

[Still-alive]

Can you describe what you mean by’assertive?’

[StormMistress]

Takes charge. Basically he takes the reins, leadership role. I need that cause I ain’t got an assertive bone in my body lol.

[swettannie]

yes for last one !

[StormMistress]

I see you’re a woman of culture too 😆

[scooogy]

Is it weird how happy I am that you're not as picky as most women?

[Zygum]

Difficult to find, a guy with all qualities

[Stevepro68]

It's a good list but that is the start.

[Crafteroon]

So 80% general stuff, 20% specific traits.

[888theGreat]

I think that describes Satan

[StormMistress]

Satan is hot 🥵

[888theGreat]

all tail and no PP

[TheBigGuy9]

Yes. The treat me like gutter trash in the bedroom is the dead giveaway.

[d3n0939]

that is very normal liking

[Philyouup]

i think that’s a good list.

[Pudsmucker]

You're going to get one lucky guy.

[msc545]

you forgot RICH

[Xtendable]

Quite a list of qualities

[Kelly6]

Number 1