50/50.
I need plans to keep myself in line. To go gym, study, fit in things I need to do. I used to be really bad at one point! Scheduling myself down to the minute. But it got really stressful when unexpected things happen and throw you off plan. So I loosened up a lot. I now have plans of what I need to accomplish but they can flex.
And spontaneous? If I'm bored ai can just decide to go out to a club or cinema on the hop. If I'm with a boyfriend I'd like to be able to just throw some random "hey lets do this" in the air.
And haha when single.. nothing like talking to someone and getting such a vibe you throw caution to the wind and go hook up!
So yh both. Nobody needs to be one or the other!
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3.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Mix of both, I for example plan on going somewhere so I prepare my things un advance but I don't really plane my activity that much, like I just say I want to go to a certain shop in a far away city go there early and once I visited the shop I wanted to then it's a free day in the city and I do what I want until I'm tired.
So I do plane a bit but I don't book my full day, I give myself lots of liberty.
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982 opinions shared on Dating topic. I like to spontaneously plan that I'll do nothing today :)
No usully I plan it out in my head I'll work and then I'll know what tasks I want to gt done after that. Or if I don't work I'll just do things that are important. But yesterday I did a lot so today I'm just gonna rest cook myself dinner and watch the euros final :)
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+1 yI like to do what I want to do so I will line spontaneous people up against the wall and take them out one by one with a shot gun.

Now I want to remind people I like cocaine and hookers. Bring both if you want to hang with me.
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4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I like SOME things to be spontaneous, but bc of work I do follow a regimented schedule for many things.
00 Reply22.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Umm yes (meaning both depending on what brain decides during that period).
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+1 yI sometimes have a plan, and sometimes I don't. It's fun to wonder how the day will go.
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m +1 yA bit of both really, I will sometimes plan out a weekend and stick to the plan, other times I’m just going to do stuff in some random order of fun or something. I once drove to a friends told him to pack a case as we were going to France. My car was packed, case in and bookings made while sitting in his house.
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+1 yI would love to plan everything... but life doesn't want to cooperate 😕
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Even without religions or science, life isn't often cruel, true? Like it's almost like sometimes 'life' deliberately likes to set up things if a is having a good day or b is getting full of his ego and suddenly wham spanners in the works or a pothole it's so sad how life can be like that at times? You know. External factors sigh 😔
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Where is perfectionism in life lol 😆 if only. You know. Ah well ❤️🩹
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+1 yI like my days planned out. Some days don't go as planned though.. but it's alright. 😄
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It's the worst isn't it how other people, other things, or other factors are usually always to blame for an otherwise almost perfect day 😞😔
742 opinions shared on Dating topic. Both, I’m the best in both worlds. Tonight was an example to spontaneously went to a concert and then clubbing. Plans, tomorrow I am going to spend time with friends.
10 ReplySpontaneous, except for work. Unless I have a special project or chore that needs to be done I prefer my spare time to be as flexible as possible. This is especially true for non-work days.
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+1 yI plan my days and then everything usually blows up in my face and I have to improvise anyway.
I get a little disappointed when that doesn't happen atp
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u +1 yhalf and half... that's how life usually goes anyway... lol
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+1 yIm spontaneous by heart but living in a structured world with rules and obligations really dampens my spirit
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+1 yMix of both honestly. I prefer having a plan, but being flexible with it and not necessarily having to follow it to the tee.
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+1 yA little bit of both. Depends on my mood really.
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u +1 yI don't really have much space for spontaneity right now, unfortunately.
00 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. A bit of both... some planning is necessary like things I have to do. Otherwise I like to make it up as it goes
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Do you like to be in control/anxious? 🤔 Or your SO?
18.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't like having planned out days, but they are anyway due to my work schedule.
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+1 ySpontaneous. I learned the lesson long ago that life is what happens when you are busy making plans.
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+1 yi hate planning my days out. feels like your life is running on rails and you're not free to do what you want.
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+1 yPeople who travel on packaged tours amuse me. Why? I want to be my own tour guide. Spontaneous is the way!
00 Reply 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. yes, some days are planned as a necessity, most days are I think I will do... squirrel
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+1 yDays planned out, unless "I'm" the one controlling the changes 😋😈
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+1 yA mix of spontaneous and planning. Mostly planning these days. Younger, more spontaneous.
00 ReplyNo matter how much we make plans, they never come true, so it's spontaneous.
For example, spontaneous sex :D
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+1 yI like to be spontaneous with most things when I’m not working because it’s so annoying planning everything
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+1 yI like to know what i will do to use the time better. But there is still the flexibility to change if it sounds worth it
00 Reply Never been a spontaneous person, I need to plan ahead, not too much as there is a lot of unpredictability, but I would always plan for the day ahead.
00 Reply3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. I can be both to be honest. I am a mood person.
00 ReplyI like some degree of structure. But I'll go batshit crazy without a little chaos
00 Reply6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Just depends on the day.
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+1 yPlanned spontaneity is my motto!
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+1 yI'm both but i usually make my days planned!
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+1 yFairly spontaneous as a lifelong bachelor..
00 Reply Spontaneous. Planning are for pussies yo
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Spontaneity is all have these days….
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+1 yBoth.
10 Reply853 opinions shared on Dating topic. Personally i like to plan ahead
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. i go with the fllow
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+1 yPlanned out
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