Would you stop talking to a guy who admitted to sleeping with a trans woman?

[Anonymous]

He’s cool and I was thinking about sleeping with him…. He admitted that he was going through a phase and he wants a family, wife and kids

I didn’t judge him but it was weird

[Finchie40]

I would never sleep with a trans so that pretty much means he is Bi sexual , so I don’t blame you for not wanting to date him anymore

[Asker]

He was just going to be a fling tbh but not some one I would take seriously

But he’s like the 3rd guy who has admitted to it so I thought it was normal amongst some men

Definitely not straight

[Finchie40]

Exactly , to some men, that might be the case , but not all men , I am completely straight and only want females’ nothing else. Shit i have dumped girls’ that didn’t tell me she was bi sexual , that ended up on bed with another girl behind my back , to me that is still cheating , so I don’t tolerate that kind of shit , if she was upfront to me about it , I would of had more respect for her , but the fact that she lied and didn’t tell me the truth , made me lose respect and trust in her. So I would end it immediately. I prefer girls’ that are on the same page as myself when it comes to relationships, a girl that is loyal and faithful to me , not a girl that only cares about herself or what is best for herself , I can’t stand selfish people. If she wants me to be loyal to her? She needs to do the same for me , not the other way around.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree.. dating is scary now because so much is being normalized

[Finchie40]

Tell me about it , after my separation from my wife and entering back into the dating world , I been so lost on how so much has changed with people , it’s actually kind of scary , especially with some of the girls’ I started dating and having sex with , Most of them were liars and selfish people. that had a hard time being honest. So I decided to no longer rush into a relationship with a girl until I really get to know her and know she is being honest with me , So I prefer FWB’s with a girl first before jumping into anything with her. The only way Inwall be FWB’s with a girl is if her and I are on the same page as things , so yes some strings are attached but not completely, We agree to only have sex with each other but open to dating others if we choose to , if one of us ends up having sex with someone else , we end the benefits part and just remain friends , The purpose of it is for her and I to hopefully end up together but that isn’t always the case , so it’s best for her and I not to get to attached to each other until we really get to know each other. Most girls’ I meet just want sex but they have a hard time being honest about it , cuz they say they want a relationship and well but when push comes to shove they don’t. So instead of having my heart shit on , I take the slower road

[Asker]

Yeah I totally understand… I’m trying to find a friends with benefits

The last guy I talked to was following a trans prostitute who was running an oral special.. and I really wanted to be with him

[Finchie40]

Yea if that turns you off , than you are probably best to stay clear of him and find yourself a straight guy that only likes girls’ FWB’s is pretty easy to find these days because most people just like casual sex , so you shouldn’t have a problem finding someone. I’d help ya out but , I can’t see you or even know where you live lol

[sawno]

Guys aren't romantic interests for me so I can only answer this on a friends basis. But I won't care who they sleep with unless its consensual (Of course I don't think people that are drugged, children, etc count as consent).

[Nirmroth]

If it doesn't bother you why give a fuck what others here think about it?

I dont think he's gay but was probably interested and that way more than the typical guy.

[Asker]

If he’s interested then he’s gay

[Nirmroth]

You say "is" but it "was". I think thats called bi curious nowdays?

[Asker]

I think it’s called nasty and I want no parts. I want a real straight man

[Nirmroth]

Then he clearly isn't your cup of tea

[Asker]

Nope not long term

[Anonymous]

"I didn't judge him but it was weird"

this is judging him though

[Asker]

I didn’t judge him I just don’t feel comfortable

[Danny_dan92]

I wouldn’t blame a girl for doing this.




That’s a closeted homosexual

[Maxnanet]

Why?
Why would it even bother you?

[Asker]

It doesn’t but I don't know if he’s straight

[Maxnanet]

Well, he seems to be bi !
Would you kind if that would be the case?
Would that stop you from sleeping wity him?

[Asker]

He ghosted me for no reason but at least he told me he was going to lol