If you had to choose one of these personalities for a partner, which would you choose and why?

[HawkPerception]

Personality Types

It took me a while to make this on Canva even though it looks like crap 😅

[DizzyDesii]

I consider myself 3 of the above- purple (the imaginative plan for everything description), perriwinkle blue (the charismatic leader description), and orange (the enthusiastic creative description). In a partner, I have dated all of the above so I know what I do/don’t prefer. I WOULD DATE the orange (enthusiastic creative always smiling) person 1st but the aqua was a close 2nd. If Purple and I are both planners/idealists, we’d clash. I cannot do the first indigo blue because I don’t want someone who’s quiet. The second indigo blue isn’t bad but sometimes they seem pessimistic or like know-it-alls when they always have something to prove when no one asked. I’m not into gray especially experimenters. Sky blue with that thirst for knowledge are too curious for me, so no. Aqua is cool but how often will they always be trying to do charitable things? Spearmint Green is good if its me they’re defending but I don’t need someone who’s like a mama’s boy thinking she can never be wrong. The white box was attractive until I saw always wanting to explore something new… nah I’d be too routine for them. Red sounds good but we’d probably clash both trying to be dominant lol. The perriwinkle blue box seems cool but we’d probably be too charismatic fighting for the mic lol. Forest green might be too bossy for me. Bottom yellow would be too much of a daredevil so no. Top yellow is probably always asking why, so no. Peach seems good but it can be exhausting being with someone whose too popular and in the spotlight. Pink is too unpredictable/spontaneous for me so no. All these people sound great but I want peace in a relationship, not to be challenged by them 🤣 GREAT QUESTION!!

[HawkPerception]

The types that you've mentioned you're into seem to be INTJ, ENFJ, and ENFP personality types (at least from the short descriptions that were given)

[HawkPerception]

Really appreciate the detailed opinion 😁

[HawkPerception]

I can tell you get pretty invested in stuff related to your preference when it comes to dating or to fashion

[DizzyDesii]

Yea cause im so picky haha. And yea im definitely into guys who are ENFP (optimistic, creative, dreamers aka Diplomat/Campaigners), ENFJ (charismatic, problem solving, natural-born leaders aka Diplomat/Protagonists), and INTJ (logical, intellectual, lonewolves aka Analyst/Architects) because they all remind me of myself. I even like INFP (Diplomat/Mediators- when they’re not being overly empathetic and curious). I really like all the “Diplomat” people— Advocate, Mediator, Protagonist, and Campaigner.
Probably because I can relate to each. I’ve taken this test 3 times in the past. In high school, I was considered an INFJ-T (the ambitious, charitable, overly empathetic, sensitive, self critical, misunderstood, people pleaser dreamer aka Diplomat/Turbulent Advocate) in HS. In college, I shifted into a more bold yet humble empath aka ENFJ-T (Diplomat/Protagonist). After college, I became an “always got something to say” ISTJ-T (aka the Sentinel/Logistician who basically hates change and is unsatisfied due to my expectations constantly not being met). Here I am taking the test for a fourth time and I am now an ESTJ-T aka Sentinel/Executive (sensitive, decisive, defensive, logical, organized perfectionist). Lmao but part of it is nuts. They said I enjoy group activities. Thats a lie. They said I’m observant and have a strong focus on whats happening in the world. Lmao I’m so behind the times that I don’t even watch the news. Another lie.

[HawkPerception]

I mean... there's 16 personality types. 16 personality types can't describe the 8 billion people in world's personalities to the TEE. But it can put you in a category that comes pretty close. It's not meant to guess everything right about you 😂

As for me, I've done the test like 50+ times over the years using different websites and platforms, which ask different questions and I consistently get INTP on every platform. There is truth to the personality tests.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree there's truth to it. The ones i listed definitely above got me 80%+ right. Just wrong in some aspects. Im just shocked it keeps shifting every few years. I was INFJ (HS Advocate)/ENFJ (College Protagonist)/ISTJ (Logistician)/ESTJ (and now Executive). I just really thought this time i would get ENFP (Campaigner) since thats what I feel I am and I’m most attracted to in a partner. But i definitely agree with my ENFJ/Protagonist result from college the most if not thatz

[DishLady]

Oh my... Ok, it's going to take me a while to read and process all these. ... are they clustered in any order?

[HawkPerception]

I'll share that after 😂 But I will say there is a reason for most of what I do 😎

[DishLady]

Oh... Yes, ok, makes sense. If you have it in a larger version can you DM it to me, then?

[HawkPerception]

Tell me if this works.

https://ibb.co/7WSZn6x

[DishLady]

AH!!! Yes! Thank you so much. :)

[HawkPerception]

No problem 😁

[DishLady]

Ok, so it's a tie between the Very Dedicated (green) and the Smart/Curious (yellow). I didn't see "Honest" again. Honest will always win out over all of these.

[HawkPerception]

I agree with you! Honesty is definitely number one

[OfMiceandMen]

I would likely go for the grey type person/partner.