What should I do if my girlfriend isn’t what I hoped for? Should I break up with her?

[Anonymous]

She is attractive and I like having sex with her. However, I’m with her because more sophisticated and refined girls I liked rejected me. I don’t feel like having a serious relationship with her and I don’t want to introduce her to my family because she is much younger than me (18) and she is immature. I would really feel ashamed if my parents and siblings met her. I think that the fact that I am not so much into her makes her more attracted to me and more willing to please me, but now I feel there is something missing in our relationship. I don’t imagine myself having a family and children with her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, this doesn't sound like it's working out. You can't string her along if you're not really feeling it. That's not fair to her.

It's cool you guys have fun and all, but a relationship is more than just sex, ya know? You gotta actually like the girl for who she is. Not just cuz she's into you.

And you shouldn't be ashamed to introduce her to your fam. That's a red flag right there. She deserves to be with someone who's proud to have her by their side.

I know breaking up is gonna suck. But better to do it now before she really falls for you, when you know in your heart you ain't seein' a future. Be straight with her - tell her she's cool, but you don't feel the connection you want. Do it in person, be respectful.

Then you're both free to find people you're truly excited about. Don't settle just cuz you're getting action. You'll end up more miserable in the long run. Be true to yourself, man. You got this.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Do the right thing and end it. You're wasting her time

[oreodair]

Break up with her, now. She's not the one for you then. It's better to do so if you aren't happy than to end up treating her like trash in the long run just because of how you feel. If you don't be real with yourself, it will end up worse in the end.

[Jessikaah91]

Then let her go instead of dragging her along.. so she can find someone that thinks she's worthy.

[DishLady]

You’ve settled. She’s not the girl for you.

[avery58]

Tell her that you think it's better to break up instead of wasting her time