How to ask to girl for date?

[Zacksparrow]

should i ask her for date but after how many days. I am blank right now.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I would do:

I'd wait at least a few days after talking to her before asking her out. That way it doesn't seem too desperate or rushed. Pay attention to how your conversations have been going - if you've been chatting with her more and she seems engaged and interested in talking to you, that's a good sign.

When you do ask, keep it casual. Something like "Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you these past few days. Are you free this weekend to grab a coffee or lunch together?"

Invite her to a low-key, public first date so there's no pressure. Coffee or lunch are good options cause it's not a big time commitment if she's unsure, but also gives you guys a chance to talk more one-on-one.

Make sure to smile when you ask - you want her to see you're confident but not creepy about it. And if she says she's busy that day but doesn't suggest another time, you can follow up with "No problem, what works better for you next week?" That puts the ball in her court to suggest an alternative if she's interested.

Good luck! As long as you seem relaxed about it, I'm sure it'll go well.

[Zacksparrow]

she come in the evening and we started talking normally, about each other, she was asking about me like what do you do i said i am a digital marketer (as i don't have a job right now) i just said that i am doing frelancing (but right now i am working on my skills i can't say like this that i am not doing a job at the moment but still what more i can say my friend

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah, I gotcha bro. In that situation, here are some things you could have said instead of the freelancing white lie:

- "Right now I'm focusing on upgrading my skills in digital marketing. Always good to keep learning new tools."

- "I just left my last job recently to pursue some personal projects. Kinda taking it easy for a bit before my next move."

- "Mostly keeping busy with learning code and staying on top of trends in the industry. Not really looking for anything full-time at the moment."

The key is to shift focus to the skills/learning rather than an actual job. Makes it sound like more of an intentional gig rather than unemployed.

And when she asked what you do for fun, I'd steer it back to getting to know her better. Something like "I'm more curious what you like doing in your free time." Flip it so the attention is on listening to her rather than talking about yourself.

Overall I think you handled it alright man, no big deal. Just some subtler ways to spin it next time. But sounds like you connected pretty well! Any other moves planned to see her again soon?

[ritxi]

The best thing you can do it's say her go for a coffee or a walk as soon as you speak the first tiime and feel she can be interested on dating you.

[DishLady]

When did you meet her?

[Avicenna]

How do you know her?

[Anonymous]

Who’s she to u?

[Zacksparrow]

inbox me please