How to ask a girl out?

[Anonymous]

How do I ask a girl out without coming across as a creep or needy?

[northerngal]

Be yourself and be upfront. Girls know how tough it is for a guy to ask them out so relax and do not worry. Some of the best dates I have had have been with guys who were not exactly "smooth" when they asked me out due to nerves. It can be endearing. But also be prepared that she might say no. But hey fortune favors the brave right?

[Asker]

Any ideas on what I can say? 🤣

[northerngal]

How about start with hello. Go from there. Yes its really that easy. If she treats you badly you dont want to date her anyway. She actually just saved you a bunch of time.

[Asker]

We've talked and worked together for a few months so we already know each other, Our friendship is complicated though as in, I told her that I liked her back in December and didn't know she had a boyfriend but they've broke up now

[northerngal]

Well you have things in common then... topics to discuss and break the ice. Just ask her out. She does not have a boyfriend so its totally appropriate to try again.

[northerngal]

Dont overthink things too much.

[Asker]

Hard to when I'm an over thinker 😂

[northerngal]

Well something to work on maybe... at any rate good luck!

[BarryLiverstone]

Where do you want to take her to on the date?

[Asker]

I might just play it casual and say like I'm heading into town for a few things if you want to come along otherwise it'll prob be some activity and food or something 🤷

[BarryLiverstone]

So have a plan and invite her. Like : hey on Friday night I’m getting dinner at the Outback, wanna join me?

[jimmy2]

He lets go out if you want to