Found out that a woman interested in me in class has a boyfriend (in the same class)?

[Anonymous]

So i started out new classes recently. Then a woman walks in whilst I’m sitting in a group of other dudes and instantly notices me. She was shy, or so I thought at first. Constantly gives me eyes though, tries to get eye contact and always tries to be close to me but my gut doesn’t really seem to like her (even though i do find her attractive). I had two interactions with her where i asked for her name and then later confirmed it. Then last week i noticed some dude staring me down ( I asked myself what that idiot was doing) and so I did some digging and low and behold I find out that not only does she have a boyfriend, that dude is her goddamn boyfriend. And now I’m struggling to comprehend what the hell i should do here. Pretend this never happened? Tell her to cut it out? Cos she's still doing the exact same thing. Im not even talking about the prospects for drama here….

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that sucks. Nothing worse than getting mixed signals from someone in a relationship.

I’d say just be cool but keep your distance. If she keeps staring you down and stuff, you can give her a quick “we gotta stop with this” type look. But I wouldn’t make a big deal and start drama.

As for the boyfriend, don’t do anything to antagonize him directly either. If he’s staring you down, just ignore it. No good can come from engaging with him.

Really you wanna avoid the whole mess. Focus on your classes and meet other available girls if you’re looking! Doesn’t seem worth pursuing anything with someone already taken. Just play it chill and don’t give them any attention or reaction, hopefully they’ll lose interest soon. Your gut was right to be wary.

If they keep it up and it really bugs you, maybe have a friend casually mention to the boyfriend what’s up so he deals with it. But other than that, rise above and let them sort their own nonsense out. You got better things to do!

[Avicenna]

Maybe he started dating her afterward. Or maybe she's a tease. Either way, steer clear.

[Asker]

The looks she gives me are borderline obsessive, almost creepy. But yeah thats not a bad idea

[DishLady]

So what's your dilemma? She has a guy. Why are you even THINKING about her? Move on.

[WhitneySnow]

Serious drama. Stay away from her, especially if you’re not into her.