Have you ever had someone come over for a hookup and they refused to leave? What did you do?

[Danny_dan92]

This story is kind of funny.


The girl didn’t want to leave. She also would not want to stop cuddling me, she was acting and saying things as if in her mind we were now together because we had sex.



I woke up before her the following morning and it was 8am… I sat there starring at the ceiling thinking how I was going to get her to leave…


I just got up and went outside my apartment… I hid in the bushes outside and next thing I knew I saw her walking outside heading towards where my car was parked. As soon as she passed I just snuck back to my apartment and locked the door.


She then sent me a text and was extremely upset.


(I didn’t want to be rude and tell her to leave my place)

[DishLady]

I laughed when I saw the lead question bc there's an expression back home for people who don't leave. We say they have "heavy butts" bc they just sit on the couch and keep talking, not knowing the correct social cues to leave.

So... the thing is to know who you're picking up... Folks can't really do this if they're just concerned with hooking up. But you can end up with a COMPLETE psycho on your hands who cuddles and snuggles and tattoos your name on her ass after one night.

In the end, though it's difficult for some folks, especially if they're younger and have higher stamina/drive, it's truly better not to do the whole hookup thing. The sex frankly isn't worth all the extra drama (no matter how good the sex happens to be). Better to wait to form genuine feelings for a person and take your time to get into the physical stuff.

[Yannae]

Would you look at the time, it's almost time for boy's night!

[Anonymous]

So funny. You could have just told her you only wanted a 1 night thing and nothing more.

[Danny_dan92]

I did… but she refused to listen. It’s as if she became an anvil

[Opinion Owner]

So I get it now

[Danny_dan92]

Good